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I'm a middle aged lady... in love with another lady!

Q.   I am a female in love with another female but I am not sure how she feels. We are both middle aged. We have the best time together and laugh a lot. She told me she only got married to get away from her step dad and has fallen out of love with her ...

A.   27 December 2006: You certanitly do love her but your scared that she might not love you in the way you do and she might get scared. Try taking it slowly. Try flirting with her give her a massage or something.... (read in full...)

Why would a man choose internet porn, for sexual grafication over his beautiful wife? My self esteem is low as he deprives me! Any good advice?

Q.   Why would you husband choose internet porn for sexual grafication over his beautiful wife? I don' t nag him. I am open minded and interested in new sexual experiments. We have great days weeks and months together. We don't arguue have two beautiful ...

A.   26 December 2006: I have no idea why men watch porn. My husband used to watch it occasinally until 3 years ago when I spiced it up in bed. After that the porn started to stop on the computer. But on the tv it didnt but instead of trying to stop him we watched it ... (read in full...)

Our boss says coworkers are not to date each other - he doesn't know his bro and I are falling for each other!

Q.   Well i just started a new job about 3 weeks ago and Im in a little bit of a situation. I have a thing for the bosses brother and he feels the same about me, we have been sneaking around, and I am starting to fall for him. The problem is my boss told ...

A.   26 December 2006: The boss has no control over your love life espically if its his own brother. Even if you do get caught his brother if he is to love you will try to protect you and persue his brother from firing you.... (read in full...)

I gave some guy random head and I feel like a slag now. Is this normal?

Q.   hi im nearly 18! im still a virgin and i have been sexually active once before!! until last night i gave some random head and he fingered me! and today i feel like such a slag and kinda depressed and dirty! is this normal! or will i always feel like ...

A.   26 December 2006: This is normal since you have no idea who the guy was and you did not love him. But you are not a slag because this happens all the time and doing it once does not make you a slag.... (read in full...)

Do I tell the kid's the 'real truth' about why their Dad and I split up?

Q.   Hi, my husband and I have recently split over his porn use.I dont want to have a debate here as I have seen a lot on this site of really good discussion...I am dead against porn and wont be changing my mind but my question is..should I tell my ...

A.   26 December 2006: I think that the children don't need to know but if you dont tell them they might suspect it might have been becasue of them. So if I were in your situation I would tell a lie and say you grew apart because it would be a bad on the children as you ... (read in full...)

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