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Orgasm help?

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Question - (22 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

When I give myself orgasms after a few seconds It feels really good nd I strt twitching nd I have to stop. Y?..

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A male reader, DeadEyeDick United States +, writes (23 March 2010):

DeadEyeDick agony auntGuys have the same feeling, after I get off, you better not so much as breath on the head of my cock, it's sometimes impossible to even put my underwear back on until ive given it a few minutes, the head becomes so sensitive even rubbing against my britches makes me twitch and jolt, id imagine it's the same effect, even though I cant say how my clit feels after an orgasm, it sounds the same!

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A female reader, purplewasabi United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2010):

purplewasabi agony auntHow are you giving yourself this orgasm ? When I rub my clitoris directly, I'm too sensitive and can't keep it up for long; when I do reach the point of the orgasm I never actually stimulate the clitoris nub directly, instead I rub the area just above it; I find this is much more effective and arousing for me. If I stimulate the clit during orgasm I have to stop pretty quickly and it is no longer comfortable. The twitching is normal though; that's all part of the joy of an orgasm! (: Just experiment, you'll find your own way of pleasuring yourself before long.

Happy touching!

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A female reader, pandabird  +, writes (23 March 2010):

pandabird agony auntIt depends... If you're talking about just After you've had an orgasm, then it's normal because your clitoris becomes very sensitive after.. However, if you're talking about during, or just before you reach it, it could be a lot of different reasons.

Try slowing down, and building it up gradually.. You'll be able to focus better on what feels good, and pinpoint when you feel the need to stop... Then you can change positions, or try a different way of doing it without losing too much of the build up.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (23 March 2010):

Not My Name agony auntCoz it feels so good you can't stand it? Coz you subconsciously don't like the idea of losing control? Coz you've lost the plot and can't focus on what you are doing to continue?

You just gotta learn to let go and run with it on all accounts.

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