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writes:I dont know how to start my question but im a 21 years old girl and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months now.Lately he is being so distant. i dont know if im being needy but he doesnt even bother to go online to talk to me and thats how we usually talk. He never calls only texts. I feel so bad when i dont talk to him for a long time. He usually spends his time with his friends at his student house playing video games. I feel that he is so unhappy sometimes when he is with me but when i ask him he says he is and that he is lucky to have me and that i should stop being so insecure. I really love him and i know he does too. Im not even sure if im the one whos unhappy in this relationship because every little bad thing he does now makes my blood boil and it didnt bother me when we first started dating. One second he is in love with me and one second he is completely cold and rude. When i get mad at him he says he cant even think straight and keeps calling and apologizing although he never usually does. All i care about is his happiness but he acts so cold towards me sometimes and it makes me feel like hell. He doesnt even like holding hands or showing affection in public which i understand because hes told me before that hes shy. I dont know if i should break up with him or not but just the thought of not being with him kills me, im so confused. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): ~LIVE, LOVE & LAUGH~
You're unhappy.
Leave the relationship.
Surround yourself with individuals who approach life optomistically.
Life is not guaranteed from one moment to the next.
~LIVE, LOVE & LAUGH~
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): I am currently facing the same situation as you now and I am feeling confuse too. I am together with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and things start to sour whereby he is becoming more distant and like what is happening in your case he always appear tired whenever he is with me. And when I got mad he will keep apologizing.I don't have the intention to break up with him but I have stopped initating conversation with him until he come back and find me again because sometimes I feel that when a girl becomes too dependent on the guy he will take things for granted that she will always need him... and that he don't need to put in any effort in the relationship....
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