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writes:i developed a crush on one of the guys in my PE class on the last day of class, which is awful timing, since I probably won't see him again. I friended him, though we have no mutual friends, and he surprisingly accepted. We were taking waterpolo, but it's not being offered winter. I'm trying to petition for it, since there are quite a few people interested in it. I messaged him and he says he would be interested in taking the class again. I also asked him to ask friends to join, since I would need at least 18 people interested in order to get the class going. I only have about 10 people interested so far, so the chance that this class will be offered winter is not looking good. If the class falls through, I don't think I'll be seeing him anymore. I'd like to talk to him more, but don't want to come off as creepy. I already feel like friending him and messaging him was too overwhelming. What should I do" I'd like to get to know him better, but I don't know if i should bother, since I probably won't see him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI mean, interested in the class.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have asked him. He said hes interested. I also asked him if he knew anyone else who would be interested, and he said he would ask his friend. He hasnt gotten back to me since.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 December 2014):
 you are friends on social media... you've met him right?
he knows you it's not some random stranger asking.
ASK once to let him know you are interested then do nothing.
IF he is interested back he will get in touch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut won't he think that's creepy? I don't even know him all that well. Won't he be weirded out by it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 December 2014):
Once the class falls through you can (after the holidays) message him and say "hey are you interested in getting a cup of coffee and catching up on things?"
see what happens with that.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 December 2014):
 You can try to go out with him outside of class. It won't be creepy because you have one common interest, you just want to find out if you have more. The overwhelming sensation comes from not knowing what to expect and putting him on a pedestal. The goal of meeting him is to find out what the crush is about and to possibly develop mutual liking. When it comes to asking guys out, girls have a bigger advantage because guys are afraid of rejections so when you take the lead, it's like an anxiety being lifted off. A girl is only creepy if she is overly emotional, stalkerish, and wants a relationship right away. I don't see how meeting more friends and seeing how it goes is creepy.
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