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I want to know about oral sex!

Q.   Hi...i'm 19 yrs old boy i hav a gf and now she asked me abt sex but i wanna know abt oral sex eventually is it good to lick vagina or anus while having sex?will she like all this or to hav to hav penis in mouth? Please i want answer from ...

A.   30 September 2009: its used as foreplay, a few acts like kissing and touching eachoter before sex, if you ask her if she wants it, you will be able to lick her vagina, not all girls like ther anal area licked.. but ask her when you are more into the relationship, she ... (read in full...)

Do I start next months pack as I've lost this month's birth control pills?

Q.   Hey everyone, i just need some quick advise. I'm on the 28 day pill, i forgot to take it last night, and i was just about to take today's pill but noticed that i must have lost the pack when i was on my way home on monday after staying at my ...

A.   30 September 2009: yea, start next months pack as the days go :) iv lost them before, just remember to pick up your next prescription early:) 3... (read in full...)

Flatmate ruining my relationship! Confront them or not?

Q.   My boyfriend stays with another couple in a flat. He has known them for 2 years and has lived with them for that amount. They are very horrible people - confrontational, irrational, nasty, spitefull, messy, most of all jeleous... the list goes on...

A.   1 June 2009: confont the little cow lol honestly if my boyfriend lived in a shared flat and we got this kind of agro id kick off lol but at the same time you cannot jeopardise the place in this flat... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant by doing this?

Q.   ok, so my boyfriend and i still havent had sex, and we have been together for a year and six months. well, we now have made some moves. like dry humping. i keep my pants on (which are sweats) and he pulls out his dick, so he can feel it b...

A.   22 October 2008: okay hunny , i understand this:) BUT think of it this way yh? your both virgins, he cnt judge you and if hes with you, he obviously loves your body hun:) yh?:)... (read in full...)

Am I weird because I enjoy kissing and licking a woman's posterior?

Q.   What do you women here think of a man who really loves the female posterior? The reason I ask is because I am somewhat obsessed with the female ass. I absolutely loves kissing and licking a woman's ass. I'm talking the cheeks, not the anus iself. ...

A.   22 October 2008: a tip, if you like doing this then youl probably like what you said you DIDNT already do. my boyfriend i think is similar to you but goes a couple steps farther, no worries, try once if shes willing, even just to see hw she reacts, but trust me :)... (read in full...)

Is there any way of telling when you are truly in love?

Q.   Hey This is just a quick question but it is one i have been wondering about for quite a while now. Is there anyway of telling when you are truly in love ? Thanks x...

A.   21 October 2008: When your in love, youd dont need to ask people if you are :) best advice for you :)... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant by doing this?

Q.   ok, so my boyfriend and i still havent had sex, and we have been together for a year and six months. well, we now have made some moves. like dry humping. i keep my pants on (which are sweats) and he pulls out his dick, so he can feel it b...

A.   21 October 2008: why havent you had sex? im sorry but its seeems slightly silly, try it but use a condom/ the pill i think you may be worrying too much hun ... (read in full...)

Strange vagina!

Q.   Hi, I am a teen and I have had my fair share of boys, I have messed around like kissing etc and I'll do anything to him but as soon as he goes to touch me I hesitate and tell him to stop. There is a reason for this, I believe I have a weird vagina. ...

A.   21 October 2008: lol everyones different hun, i thought it was strange wne i ws like 13 and very confused but its normal, check the internet lol not porn just scientific stuff. dont worry :)... (read in full...)

I dislike anal sex, I think it's strange and I'm scared of it, but I do it for my husband's sake; our sex life has deteriorated.

Q.   i have been with my husband for over 10 years and married for 5, our sex life was fine up in till a couple of years ago we got a strap on dildo he wanted anal sex. lets put it this way i have never seen him like that before, he really enjoyed it. t...

A.   20 October 2008: im sorry but grow up, how an he be gay. im 17 and i know the difference between kinky and gay. you must be a vanilla sex person.. hel be bored with you, plain and simple but wants to explore. LET HIM you look so stupid to ppl, asking if hes ga... (read in full...)

My breasts are massive and I'm only 12! HELP!

Q.   I hate my body I am 12 year old girl and my breasts have been growing in size for nearly 2 years now and they are massive Iam now a 38dd and they are growing bigger by the week is it normal for a girl my age to have such large breasts or is there ...

A.   19 October 2008: Hunny I know how it is, I had to quit swimming and all my sports because I got looked at, I'm 5 ft 3 and I'm 36 F, have been since I started secondary school.. I'm 17 now, and don't worry hunny, you'll be proud in a few years, so many girls will be ... (read in full...)

I WANT to cheat on my girlfriend...

Q.   We've been together for 3 years and I love her... but the love could be "stronger." I have a great emotional relationship with my girlfriend and she rocks my world when it comes to physical sex. She gives me everything I desire in bed and we love ...

A.   19 October 2008: I'm going to be honest and say that you are every girl's nightmare, you're shallow and are a plain horrible person, your vain and you need to give your girlfriend a break.... (read in full...)

Is my husband's sexual behaviour normal? Is he bi or gay?

Q.   I need advice. I am married 11 years now. My husband had stopped kissing me shortly after our marrage. Always has a male friend around Who never dates an never been seen with a woman My husband expermented with me on several occasions with dildos a...

A.   18 October 2008: everyones different. im only young but open minded.. my boyfriend and i both like anal done to us.( we havent gone the whole way yet with eahother, just as far as regular sex and lots of toys, learningdifferent tihngs about eahcother. ... (read in full...)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

Q.   I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

A.   17 October 2008: Can i just say, discounting all of these essays. porn is normal they women/men cant come out and steal your man/wife or whatever. People dont want to kiss and love these 'people' it ISNT REAL. its all fake, watch it with them, or not, shout a... (read in full...)

How do I get over her hairy minge?

Q.   I love to give my gf oral sex because i know she likes it but it is hairy down there. How can i tell her that without offending her? Please dont be saying we are too young to be doing this because we are only doing oral and nothing else. We...

A.   13 October 2008: she probably think the same about you, if you both trimmed or something saying , we'd look better if.. etc then you'd have your problem solved and she'd like yours better too, you dont have to shave.. she will feel cleaner and she'll keep ... (read in full...)

Do other girls have hairy breasts?

Q.   Right I have a bit of a problem I have some hairs on my breasts and although their not like armpit hairs or anything I think their quite noticable am I the only one with this problem or do other people have hairs aswell??? ...

A.   12 October 2008: every woman has very very light hairs everywhere, even faces, from evolution:p dont worry, but if they are dark? pluck or use remova cream? dw :)... (read in full...)

Is this picture really that big of a deal? My girlfriend is freaking out over it...

Q.   I ask this because I want to make sure that I'm being reasonable, because I don't want to be that guy who only thinks of himself. My girlfriend took a picture of me sleeping in my underwear with my hand down my pants (hilarious!). She sent it to s...

A.   29 September 2008: hiya, i know what she wants you to do. she wanted you to tell your family not to spread it around ( wich they shoulnt have done in the first place) BUT its her fault, sh should have known this would get around,you say your not bothered by it a... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and when I masturbate I never cum, why is this?

Q.   hi, i know this is a stupid question but i am really starting to worry about it. im 14 and when i masturbate i never cum. i have never cummed before and dont ask how i know that my 12 yrs old brother has cummed but i just do. is there somet...

A.   23 September 2008: lmao he doesnt have a clit, hes a bloke.... (read in full...)

He hasn't said he loves me the last couple times we said goodbye. Is he out of love with me?

Q.   Okay I know you may think I'm a stupid school girl, but I'm a stupid school girl that'd rip her heart out if it would mean not letting him get hurt. My problem is I think I'm over re-acting, my boyfriend usually tells me he loves me when he says ...

A.   30 July 2008: Mabey, he just assumes you know he loves you :) tell him you love him, and if he tells you he loves you too.. its all good :) ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?

Q.   Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they...

A.   30 July 2008: Theres nothin realy wrong with this, is just one of those things, do you have any friends your age? ... (read in full...)

Will the nurse give me a pregnancy test at the appointment?

Q.   A couple of weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were cuddling without any clothes on … he pre-came near - but not in - my vagina. The next day, I got the morning-after pill, just in case. I’m on the contraceptive pill, and on my week break, but I’ve not ...

A.   30 July 2008: I dont know how long youv been on the pill.. but im on the pill and i dont usually 'come on' until 2 days later . this is regular and normal, you may just be the same :) Plus, if you ask for a regnancy test in the doctors, i think you can b given ... (read in full...)

I used vulgar language around my girlfriend and now she hates me, how do I get her back?

Q.   i just broke up with my girl friend ana and now she hates me alot. we broke up because of me using vulgar words towards her, any ideas on how to get her back?...

A.   28 July 2008: great advice student of life :) Yea, appologise to her, take her out :) dont use this language in the first place!... (read in full...)

Confused about my period. Could the pill have something to do with it?

Q.   Hiya, i'm a little confused as i had my period over a week ago and it lasted for around 4-5 days like usual now im bleeding again over a week later.. Its not heavy or anything its just something thats never happened before. I'm on the pill so is ...

A.   1 July 2008: depend how long youv been taking it but i think your on the 1st month?, if so this is kinda normal, itl streihen out until you have a fully predictable thing XD dont worry, if it carrys on goto docs and change ur pil :)... (read in full...)

I can't ride a penis, is something wrong with me?

Q.   i cant really ride a penis is something wrong with me?...

A.   1 July 2008: nothing is wrong. im sorry to be blunt but watch a bit of porn or just try guessing, its more thn likely you are just paranoid.. nothing is wrong with you..... (read in full...)

What sort of behavior is my boyfriend displaying?

Q.   My B\F does the following * Criticizes the mess i make in bathroom before i have chance to clean up * Criticizes how I prepare food, wash up, dry etc * Gets irritated if i leave a cup on table without coaster * complains if i get crumbs on th...

A.   1 July 2008: im sorry, but yea.. hes a complete idiot.. get rid im sorry..... (read in full...)

Young People Having Sex

Q.   Does anybody else find it as ridiculous as I the age people nowadays are losing their virginity? I am sixteen and have no intention of having sex while I'm still a teenager. It saddens me whenever I hear of girls (and guys) my age running off toge...

A.   27 June 2008: Im not against willpower and waiting BUT as mine was stolen, i did not value it until now. As lvoe my boyfriend and i am experienced because i went ou and learned how to please.. i was fully ware of the dangers and so on of sex and i was always ... (read in full...)

I cant help screaming when my man and I have sex, but it wakes the old lady next door, I cant help it though, is this normal?

Q.   I like to scream when I come. My boyfriend asks me not to make too much noise because there is an elderly lady living next door. Not long his neighbour complains about it. I feel embarassing and bad to wake her because we always make love after ...

A.   26 June 2008: lol dont worry that you cant help it, its normal.. to cut a long stor short.. the old lady should know how it is xD get her some earmuffs or something.. dont stop enjoying juste because of some old woman that sleeps light.. i personally en... (read in full...)

How can I be quieter during sex?!!

Q.   when me and my boyfriend have sex he makes me orgasm every time without fail but i feel the need to let out a big moan but when i do theyre loud, i enjoy it with him and he says sex it great with me, but when theres people in the bedroom next door ...

A.   26 June 2008: lol to be honest, i dont think its possible to 'stop being vocal' or w/e during sex, you either are, or arent much of a moaner hehe, i am even if its just little moans or sighs or big ones at change of pace.. but on orgasm im quiet, it shouldnt be ... (read in full...)

Has anyone lost it and laughed out loud in the middle of sex? He was growling like a lion!

Q.   Has anyone been in a position that has almost made you loose it and laugh outloud uncontrollably in the middle of having sex? I had sex with this guy and everything was ok until he started to make noises like a lion. I said nothing and hoped I could ...

A.   26 June 2008: lol this is a funny one! Me and my boyfriend end up giggling ansd stuff in sex and its all in good fun and good taste, we laugh at the end of sex a little, but its more o a WOW HOW GOOD!:D kinda laugh :p sal good, but ROOOAAAR! tony tiger in the ... (read in full...)

Not sure how to squirt!!?

Q.   I have a question its a little embressing but my boyfriend and i are really into each other and things in the bedroom are really good but he wants me to sqiurt if you know what i mean but i just cant figure out how to any advice from anyone?...

A.   10 June 2008: I have always been able to squirt i think, i am 17 now and i am quite sexaully addicted, i spend atlast 40mins in the shower atleast every other day or every day if i cannot see my boyfriend that day, i use a 6 inch long deorant can ''impulse'' the ... (read in full...)

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