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No orgasm from penetrative sex, is this wrong/different?

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Question - (27 September 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2011)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay ..i have a problem with sexual pleasure i think something is wrong or different with me!i don't get an orgasm from real sex...i get it only when i stimulate it from outside i mean without putting anything inside,i never masturbated by inserting anything but just by rubbing on it.

does this mean i'l never be able to get pleasure while having sex at all?i am sexually active since a year now and no orgasm from real sex!

am i the only one?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (27 September 2011):

person12345 agony auntOnly 25% of women ever have an orgasm from penetration alone. Foreplay is an idiotic term because for most women foreplay is where the orgasm comes from (oral sex or fingers). If you want to enjoy sex a bit more/up your odds of an orgasm, use positions where either you add in your hands or he adds in his.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (27 September 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntnot the only one at all.

I don't orgasm from penetration. I still enjoy sex....

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (27 September 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntNo you are not the only one. It is very common for women not to reach orgasm through sexual intercourse. It doesn't mean that sex cant be pleasurable it just means that some more added foreplay is necessary. Don't look at it as a bad thing just look at it as a way to experiment more and find new and exciting things that you like.

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