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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what to do, I recently got a boyfriend and I like him but the day he asked me out I was thinking about another guy. athe guy I was thinking about was my first love. I still haven't gotten over him and it's been almost 2 years, I don't know what it is about him. I don't really talk to him anymore at all. With my first love, I didn't go out wit him but we were talking and somehow I got to like him so much so fast. Me and my first love stopped talking because he got with another girl And I knew nothing about it. I found out through friends. I had boyfriends before him but they weren't the same. He was pretty much the first I felt a heartbreak with. Even though me and him weren't together, we talked as if we were, I liked him alot.I hung out the same place where I hung out with my first love, I was comparing what both of them would do. I didn't feel right doing that but I'd catch myself thinking about him when I was hanging out with my boyfriend. I don't know what to do, me and that guy don't talk anymore there's just something there for him. My friends have told me they've seen me look at my first love but I don't know...I like the other guy too but ughh...I have tried to talk to my first love, but nothing really happens.Any advice? has anyone felt anything similar to this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 You will get over that guy. I felt the same way when I was your age, and I have learned that we do move on. And sometimes we believe that our 17-year old sweetie is the greatest person on Earth, and then we find out that, yes, she might be, only she's not compatible with you. So, just keep on living and giving yourself a chance to be happy.
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