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writes: My fiance and i have been living together for 4 years now and everytime i ask him when were getting married, he doesn't know. it seems like ever since we've gottrn rngaged he's become distant. No more cuddling, no kissses, getting him to make love is a fight. I don't know what to do! Please help.
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reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (21 March 2006):
 Sounds to me like this man is scared of committment. Let him know that just because you have commited to him doesn't mean that he can take you for granted. All relationships lose some of the spark over time, it's just a fact of being together for a long time, but that is not an excuse for him to ignore you.
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reader, atomic +, writes (20 March 2006):
That sounds like my boyfriend. It's really hard to understand ain't it, in my opinion it's because he has HAD to work hard all this time to get engaged to you and now that he 'has' you (he's engaged to you) he thinks he doesn't have to try anymore. Yyou have to make him aware though, you have to find out what his reason is (if you haven't already) and explain that you didn't commit your life to him to live a life like that. Tell him exactly how it's making you feel and that you won't stand for it. Hope this helps..x
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