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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi i have been in a relationship for 10 weeks now my boyfriend says he adores me the problem is i have no feelings for him even though i have tried and tried i feel to guilty to split up with him though we were friends for 3 years before and we ended up dating another problem is a man i was seeing before him ended the relationship with me for his ex who have now split up again i think im in love with him i just don't know what to do i feel so guilty for feeling like this also my boyfriend lies to me a lot any suggestions what i should do would be greatly appreciated thanks
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (27 November 2013):
Let him go. You are not being fair to him or yourself. Would you want to put time and effort into someone who is "just passing time" with you.
You need to spend time with yourself. Get to know your needs, wants and desires. You are confusing yourself and are jumping from one relationship to another.
Take a break.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2013): You owe it to the guy to be honest and set him free. He may feel some pain, but he'll get over you. Just like you got over him the minute your ex broke up with his last girlfriend.You shouldn't feel guilty about being honest and letting the guy know you don't feel anything. You just don't want to look like the bad guy. You should feel guilty about leading him on and pretending you want to be with him. He was just a rebound boyfriend while you were waiting for your ex to be available again.Just a question. How do you know your ex will take you back?Just because you're still in-love with him? Or did he tell you he broke-up to get back with you? I think you might want to confirm if your ex still has feelings for you. He just may not have any intention of coming back. Maybe that's the real reason you're hanging on to a guy you're pretending to care for. That would be awful.Do the right thing, and stop toying with your boyfriend's heart. Set him free, before your karma catches up with you.Your karma would be your boyfriend leaves you, and your ex doesn't take you back.
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