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writes: hey everyone..i will try to make this short as possible... and i amnot tryin to make this a big deal but i want to know what you guys think..ive been talking to this boy for a while.. its been about 7 months now and about in february, my aunt found out that he was arrested and told me that i couldnt tLk to him anymore.. i got very upset.. crying yea was kinda tough.. but lately i have been using this app on my phone that lets me text and call anyone which in that case is what him and i do.. at first he was uncomfortable.. and wasnt texting me at all since that whole thing started.. but i told him that he could text me and call esp if my aunt isnt really around that mich.. at the end , he accepted it and started texting me like we always used to just in a different number.. we have been talking on it for about 3 weeks.. but lat monday we spoke and i told him that we havent really spoken in a while meaning less texting.. and i asked him if he was mad or ignorig me and he said no.. that he wasnt .. and i could tell that he meant it in a sincere way.. he said he hasnt been talking because he needs time for himself an has been mostly blocking people right now meaning not wanting to talk... that was monday but then tuesday we also texted for a little more while and that was it... today is wednesday and its been 8 days since we have spoken.. is he really ignoring me? i have been texting him and callin but only twice.. and i know he sees my messages esp since he is on instagrm.. it can say if your online or not.. at first i though that maybe he was thinkin back on how he didnt want to text me from my new number bu if we have been texting from it for 3 weeks then he is comfortable already which he told me he was.. why is he ignoring me? the longest i wont hear from him is 3 days but not 8 :( .. please tell me what you think .. btw i am 18 thank you..
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (6 March 2013):
 Is it possible for you to see him or enquire through friends if he is OK? He is probably going through a depression. At this stage, just be a concerned friend. Maybe he cannot handle a relationship right now. Maybe he just needs a friend. So make enquiries to make sure he is OK. If he's fine, then he is no longer interested in you, and this will give you the closure to move on.
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reader, llifton  +, writes (6 March 2013):
 unfortunately, it sounds to me like he's moved on. his ignoring you probably is his way of letting you know he's no longer invested in this relationship.
if i were you, i'd back off and stop sending him text messages. you don't want to come across as clingy and needy. i can't, however, blame you for being confused. i think it's shitty not to give people proper closure when they wish to end a relationship. but regrardless, there's nothing you can do now but move on.
but just think about it from your perspective. would you ignore a guy for 8 days if you still really liked him? there's not a chance. so just do your best and focus on finding someone else who won't treat you that way. good luck, sweetie.
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