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writes:I need help! I'm experienced with girls like kissing, talking, but not sex, when it comes to sex i know nothing about it, im an inexperienced virgin. Im a senior in high school and this is my last shot. I've known this girl since we were growing up, like preschool times, right now the only thing we've ever done was make out, thats it. She considers me as a brother, and she knows im a virgin, and i know shes not a virgin. My JROTC military ball is coming up and i invited her as my date. I need some help to break this 'brother' barrier, i dont care about sex, i just want to break this barrier. She told me that she LOVES me and i lover her back. As for sex, if it happens it happens, ill learn on the way, sex doesn't come with an instruction manual. I really apprecaite you guys help, and ill let you know how it turns out, I need a response by April 16, Thanks
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Just tell her at the ball that she your GF tell her that its the law if you dance with some one at a jrotc ball it makes them your bf or gf, shes a girl shell beleive it if she tries to google it tell her its a new law.
well im just messing that worked for me but google wasnt out back then, im not sure want kind of advice you want she probably doesn't think of you as a brother or she wouldnt have made out with you or went to a ball wth you or told you she loved things brother and sister dont do unless drugs/ alcohol are involved, usually.
Dude your n there just dont screw it up worrying and bring some condoms some good ones dont be cheap, shes a teenage girl to be honest you could tell her anythiing and she will still sleep with you sigh i shouldnt went to my prom.
So basically just ask her out tell her shes hot in that dress and just keep going unless she tells you to stop, tell her you want her to be your first that gets em every time
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010): For the virginity part, my opinion is not to rush it. Once it's gone, it's gone. And you should share that with someone you love very much and who loves you back.
As for the brother barrier, I think it's just an excuse. If someone kisses you, let alone make out, they obviously don't see you as a brother. I would NEVER kiss my brother or even someone I view as a brother. That's just wrong. It may just be her way of telling you she's not attracted to you enough to date you.
I've done this to a guy myself. I feel REALLY bad about it. He was my best friend and I initiated it myself, no less. I madeout with him because it's fun, not because I wanted more from our relationship. I love him, but I'm not in love with him. Unfortunatly, it ruined our friendship. Your case sounds like what happened with me and my friend. Breaking that barrier may never happen. So my advise is, if you value your friendship, to not push her. Hope this helps, and hope things turn out well. I would hate for you to lose your friendship with her the way I lost mine with my best friend.
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