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*ppleapple
writes:ok... So I've known this guy since we were in 6th grade. We were best friends and dated in 7th grade, broke up and still remained best friends.. We dated our junior year in high school and he broke my heart and i never talked to him again. After my x best friend/ boyfriend broke up with me, i met someone(guy #2) who i dated for two years in a half. However, last month I broke up with him and (guy#1) popped out of nowhere and we kind of started talking.. i'm anxious to know if things will finally work after all these years... he tells me he likes me, he calls but not so much. we go out, his friends know about us, but the day before yessterday I saw texts from 2 of his x girlfriends on his phone.. I didn't even bother to read them, but now i can't trust him. I really like him but I don't want to get hurt again. It's hard to feel comfortable around him because he makes me nervous and he has a very dominant personality, it's just hard to tame him. seriously. sometimes he can be mean and way to critical on the things i do or how i am, which pisses me off. Should I move on?
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reader, appleapple +, writes (30 November 2009):
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reader, Lovely Sweet Laura  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Honey, if he fooled you once, shame on him, fooled you twice-shame on you. After a certain age people really don't change that much so if he broke your heart the first time around by making you believe he cared and then ditching you for someone else, or cheated on you, he will likely do it again. I would say you are likely better of as friends. Before you get to emotionally involved ~being friends with him for awhile-and only that- would be a good idea so that can observe how is without a commitment to you. If you too aren't dating exclusively than there is no reason why he shouldn't be able to communicate with his ex's if he so chooses. Just proceed with caution and don't let your heart fall just to have it stomped on. Best of Luck
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