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I have an avid interest in the way we think and communicate, specifically within relationships. I have a good sense of myself and have no trouble sharing it with others. I yearn to understand as much as possible by listening and through logic.
I work as an administrative assistant and enjoy all the different tasks that come with my job.
I am a people person and love to socialize.
Some of my favorite activities include: dancing, swimming, canoing, hiking, camping, skiing, gardening among others. |
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What is this unknown spot on my genital area?
Q. Hey guys. I have this problem. Recently I found a spot on my gential area. This was say a week ago. Earlier today I found another. The one I found seems to be sore whilst the other isn't. I have never had sex and haven't engaged in any sexual...
A. 23 July 2009: It could just be a form of Acne or something similar. If it persist to cause you problems It would be best to seek medical attention. Best of Luck... (read in full...)
I have been in a gay relationship for 4 years, but I've found out that he's been looking at heterosexual porn!
Q. I'm 25, been in a gay relationship with my partner of 4 years, he's 28. We have good jobs and live together in our city flat. In most respects, our life is good, no issues there, apart from our sex life. My partner does not seem to want se...
A. 23 July 2009: If he won't even discuss it with you that gives me the impression that he is struggling with some mixed feelings and likely doesn't no where to start. I would suggest approaching it again and ask if he would be willing to help you understand his ... (read in full...)
My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?
Q. Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her o...
A. 20 July 2009: If she has no reason to be jealous or upset you then I would trust her. Why else would she want to cause trouble unless she is just looking out for your best interest. Perhaps she did misinterpret something he said or did but all the same it seems ... (read in full...)
Tricks for flirting?
Q. Now im a confident person around guys and talking to guys is easy. But i feel like i need some new tricks to when a new guy over.Also trying to get over my ex and i think getting some tricks on flirting can relly help me get over him =] so does a...
A. 16 July 2009: The biggest trick is to realize for yourself that you are a creature unlike any other~! When you know this it is evident to all those who encounter you. You are already on the right track by being confident within yourself. The best way to flirt ... (read in full...)
I really want to make things work but he wont make any effort!
Q. ive been in a relationship for over 4yrs. with my boyfriend and we have one kid together. we dont live together and i feel like he has no responsibilities to me or my daughter. i go to school and work yet he can't even go back for his GED or find a ...
A. 16 July 2009: You have stepped into your life as an adult and are ready to take on the responsibilities that go with that. He has yet to do so and may very well never do so. Your best bet is to concentrate on what is best for you and your child. You can't ... (read in full...)
Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?
Q. Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...
A. 16 July 2009: Men and women both need physical and emotional intimacy but women are especially sensitive to the emotional side and men the physical. We are different. If you make her feel special outside of the bedroom by paying attention to her feelings and ... (read in full...)
Could it be pregnancy this time?
Q. I have white speckles on the tips of my nipples and theyre realy sore, my whole breasts are very tender and full. Could this be pregnancy? Im also suffering alot of nausea and skipped my period. But last month my period was three weeks late too, ...
A. 10 July 2009: If this is brand new feeling for you-the breast tenderness than it could very well be a sign that you are pregnant or it may just be your bodies way responding to some hormonal fluctuation-as you said your cycle hasn't been regular lately. I would ... (read in full...)
Could it be pregnancy this time?
Q. I have white speckles on the tips of my nipples and theyre realy sore, my whole breasts are very tender and full. Could this be pregnancy? Im also suffering alot of nausea and skipped my period. But last month my period was three weeks late too, ...
A. 10 July 2009: Best bet is to take a test and find out for certain. My breast swell and become tender right before I'm due to have my period but they were also the first sign I was pregnant when I had conceived as I didn't have the premenstrual symptom until ... (read in full...)
My fiance is spending too much time with my ex? Is it just friendship?
Q. My fiancé has been spending way too much time with my ex-boyfriend for the past few weeks. About a month ago, me and my fiancé were out at a shopping mall when I saw my ex, me and him had a friendly conversation, and I introduced my fiancé to him...
A. 10 July 2009: Perhaps you should talk to your ex about it. Maybe he can shed some light on the details of their friendship. If he says the same thing as your boyfriend than there isn't much you can do there after except tell your boyfriend you are feeling ... (read in full...)
6 years ago he touched me inappropriately and now he wants to be friends!
Q. when i was 7 i was sexualy touched during a game of truth or dare. The rules were was if u don't do the dare u had to take a pice of cloths of and i had gottin down to my underwear and shirt and when i did not do another dare i did not want to take ...
A. 10 July 2009: You don't need people who used you in the past in your life. Chances are they will just do so again in one form another. If he didn't respect you then and has never admitted that he now understands that what he did was wrong and how it hurt you ... (read in full...)
Does he see me as more than a friends with benefits?
Q. Okay, so we all know the story - two bored friends with nothing better to do, so they have sex. No rules, just booty. I was attracted to him before we made this arrangement, but I told myself that I didn't want anything more from this guy. I lied. ...
A. 10 July 2009: If he hasn't pursued you in that manner and is still proclaiming that he isn't interested in a relationship my advise to you would be to keep your emotions out of it until he shows signs of letting his in. Just because you enjoy each others time ... (read in full...)
How can I make him want to see me more?
Q. I have a new friendship and I realy like the guy. I was engage a year back but broke it of after 8years because it couldn't come to a point. This new guy was also engage till about 6months back. He havn't had a relationship since yet because he ...
A. 10 July 2009: This may not make sense right now but trust me it will work. Be unavailable. Next time he wants to see you be sure to have plans already and tell him you would like to but you already had plans for that time. Guys like to chase girls and when ... (read in full...)
Stupidly didn't use protection and now am afraid
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend on the 26th of june and id just finished my period on the 25th of june stupidly we didnt use protection but he said he didnt come in me and that he withdrew , however i feel really worried and im scared that i could be ...
A. 10 July 2009: Take a deep breath and relax. Chances are you are not pregnant. There is no way of knowing for sure though unless you do a test. There are some out there that will tell you a week before your expected period. Worrying about it can cause stress and ... (read in full...)
What happens when a girl hasn't had sex in awhile?
Q. Hi. Just wanna know, what happens to a girl's vagina if she hasn't been having sex for a while? About seven months......
A. 10 July 2009: Not too much would change I wouldn't expect. You may find that things are a rather tight fit at first but the vagina has the ability to adapt and soon enough it would feel the same as it always did. I would just suggest taking your time the first ... (read in full...)
I have a thing for my cousin's daughter
Q. I have a thing for my cousin's daughter. We are both single and we are far from children. She is very bright and interesting, and there is a physical appeal. We spoke recently at a party and she actually told my mother in a telephone conversation ...
A. 10 July 2009: She would be considered your second cousin if she is your cousin's daughter so you are related. I guess it would come down to how everyone involved felt about the situation. I actually know someone who had a relationship with there first cousin ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I don't think I'm ready yet?
Q. My girlfriend who I have been going out with for over a year and a half. I love her so much and would do anything for her. Now lately, we have been messing around saying sex stuff. But obviously cos we r both gay. (im bi and she is a lesbian), but ...
A. 9 July 2009: Wait until you are completely comfortable. If she cares about you she will understand. There is no need to rush it. The experience will be much more enjoyable for you if you are ready and you will know when you are. best of luck... (read in full...)
I am tempted by another girl while being with another
Q. I love this girl right... But i'm already in a relationship and I don't want to cheat... ever. I mean they're both amazing and even my current lover notices me eying her off occasionally but doesn't tell me off, she knows i'm loyal but i'm getting ...
A. 9 July 2009: If you are feeling that the attraction to your new interest is more powerful than what you feel for your current girlfriend then perhaps you should break it off with her and see if there is a possibility for a relationship with this new girl. It is ... (read in full...)
Should I give up my married lover? He says he wants to break up with his wife... again.
Q. I know this is the same old scenario and I have only myself to blame, but I really am at my wits end. I have been involved in a relationship with a married man for over 12 months now. His wife knows about us and has done since day one pretty much. ...
A. 9 July 2009: You should both dump him. Then perhaps he won't be so willy nilly about what he wants in the future. Wouldn't it be great if we could all just have one lover for each of day of the week and get away with it! haha Seriously though he is obviously ... (read in full...)
How to get my abusive fiance to leave me??
Q. i got engaged 4 months ago to a guy 5 years older than me who neither my family nor i knew. His family were friends with some of my parents relatives. It wasn't quite arranged - my family arent quite the typical muslim family - I grew up in ...
A. 9 July 2009: I truly feel for you in your situation. It is hard enough to deal with emotional abuse from someone you care about but in your case you don't even care and to have to listen to him insult you-I understand your frustration. You are an adult and ... (read in full...)
My married lover is stalking me
Q. My married lover is stalking me - I only found out he was married recently, he gets a group of his mates to help him spy on me too-thing is, from how he's treated me and the fact that he's married he doesnt love me and from how he is with me I'm ...
A. 2 July 2009: He sees you as a possession and is likely insecure that you now know about him being married. He doesn't want you to meet a nice young man who isn't already committed in fear that he may lose his cake. It's not about love, it is about control-be ... (read in full...)
Help me please - I haven't heard from him since yesterday! I'm so worried!
Q. Hi, I am currently in a long distace relationship with a guy in florida.. We have never met, Anyway yesterday he was at the theme park .. and he sent me a message saying "hey i can't text much but i am going home very soon and i will call y...
A. 2 July 2009: Since you care it is understandable that you are worried. I feel the same way when I haven't heard from my boyfriend and he is out later than he had said he would be. Chances are that there is a reasonable explanation on his part as to why he ... (read in full...)
I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!
Q. I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work ...
A. 30 June 2009: It is a convenient relationship for him. Why would he leave. he is getting what he needs and is getting away with neglecting you. Sure it annoys him when you place expectations on him but he can just fake it for a little while or pretend to care ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get into a relationship!
Q. I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...
A. 29 June 2009: It is good to see you have goals and have gotten yourself to a place where you are happy in your life. Now to find someone to share that with! Most of us at twenty three are not quite where you are in there life so it is understandable that you ... (read in full...)
I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!
Q. I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work ...
A. 29 June 2009: I know you love him, unfortunately sometimes love just isn't enough-just like the song says. I have the same problem you do. Someone who punishes me for the things he screws up. You can stay with him a continue this game until finally you feel ... (read in full...)
Can there be love without trust??
Q. Can there be love without trust? I keep believing there can be, but I am having my doubts and I need your advice. I need opinions so I can have options to choose from. Sorry, but this is going to be a long post. If you have the patience, do rea...
A. 29 June 2009: Sounds like your girlfriend is a bit insecure. It likely does have a lot to do with the fact that you were with another when the two of you met. She knows that there is a chance you may be with someone else while the two of you are still an item. ... (read in full...)
I think he's cheating again..what now?
Q. Hi everyone Well I will try and keep things short. I have been with my husband for 9 years married for 7. About 4 years ago he had an affair with a woman he worked with. It went on for about 2 years and we were apart. We got back together after al...
A. 14 May 2009: Oh please walk away-he is doing this right in front of you and you are just holding on to a hope that isn't worth your precious time. What a dirt bag he is. You are better off without him and only then will you be able to seek out the possibility ... (read in full...)
Drunken boyfriend is a jerk
Q. hi im 22 and ive being going out with my curent boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together and hes 1 .i already knew him before so ive known him for about 8 years.ive never been in a relationship like this before he drinks all the time swear ...
A. 14 May 2009: I am sorry to hear you are being mistreated. It could be that he is an angry drunk who only lets out his frustrations when he is that state and ends up over exaggerating them. It could also be that he doesn't give a care about how he is making you ... (read in full...)
I think maybe I fell out of love with my husband when he hit me
Q. I know there's a lot of posts about this subject, and I know its taboo but I am in the same boat. I am married, I love my husband, I am happy, he's the only man I've even been with, only man I've even kissed. He's a fabulous guy but he has anger ...
A. 14 May 2009: If his anger started first as mood swings and then built up to the point where he struck you he will do it again. There may be extended periods between his outburst but it will always lead back to you being mistreated either emotionally or ... (read in full...)
Do I have a problem with my direction?
Q. Hi! I'm a 15-year-old girl who is straight and who loves boys! My sister is a lesbian and she gave me some episodes of the L World to watch last week.I wasn't ok with that coz'i'm not a dyke!!!I watched the show and I loved it!!! Now when I go on...
A. 3 June 2008: Just because you are attracted to watching girls together does not make you a lesbian or even necessarily Bi-sexual. Guys like watching them too but they aren't lesbians, haha. But in all seriousness, there is no reason why you should think that ... (read in full...)
He bled into me. Is this dangerous?
Q. Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. ...
A. 29 May 2008: Even if he cut his penis, it is very unlikely that you would have bled it our afterwards for an hour, there is no way he could have lost that much blood. I could be wrong, it's just my opinion. ... (read in full...)
He bled into me. Is this dangerous?
Q. Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. ...
A. 29 May 2008: if it is only the 2nd or third time you two have had sex that is still possible that you hymen aka cherry is still partially intact. It likely wasn't him that was bleeding but yourself, especially if it continued to flow for an hour, there is no ... (read in full...)
I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?
Q. Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...
A. 29 May 2008: She will be more hurt if she finds out the truth later on, so tell her the truth and let her decide if she thinks you are truly sorry and wants to stay with a man that was so easily tempted. It is gonna hurt her, but she will appreciate your ... (read in full...)
My husband is spending too much time with my dad, and he's neglecting me and our children!
Q. I've become concerned about my husband lately, as in the past few months he's been spending too much time with my dad, and not enough with me and the kids (two boys, one is 6 years old, the other 8). When they first me, they got on great, and th...
A. 29 May 2008: Wow, it sounds like they are avoiding their family responsibilities completely. If neither of them had the tendency to do this in the beginning than I can understand your concern...but unfortunately your concern isn't important to them....why? I ... (read in full...)
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