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writes:i recently discovered that my wife is watching porn when i'm at work.is this normal? is she doing it for personal pleasure because she is'nt satisfied by me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): I'm guessing for the same reasons you watch it...
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reader, Kimaxsi +, writes (1 May 2008):
I am married and I look at porn and my husband knows he even helps me find porn which he thinks I might like. We don't watch porn together and I am more than satisfied with my husband, in fact I couldn't be happier with him. It doesn't necessarily mean anything and certainly not that she's sexually deviant. Lots of men look at porn, girls do it too sometimes. But you can ask her my husband and I have discussed this before, I've asked how he feels about it and I'd stop if he was against it. Porn shows me some stuff I can later try on him lol
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reader, rorowes +, writes (1 May 2008):
Did you bust her at it, or did she tell you about it? Anything secret is not good. Communication is the key.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Don't lose sleep over this. There is a very wide gap between watching porn and cheating; plus, watching porn does not mean she wants to be in a porn movie. She probably does it because she is bored and her brain gets a kick out of it. People watch scary movies -- like Jigsaw -- all the time. But that does not mean they fantasy about being hunted or tortured. All it means is our brain gets a kick out of it.
You can also watch the ones she watches and try the positions together.
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reader, oldfool + ♥, writes (1 May 2008):
Well, we now know what she does while you're at work. More to the point would be what she does when you get home from work!
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reader, pyan +, writes (1 May 2008):
Hi
ask her, how did you find out.
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