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writes:Hi all!Thanks for taking the time out to read this...right...so, me and my girlfriend are very much in love and evrythings going great...however, shes still in touch with her ex and tries to hide it from me...I know some of you may think I've got a trust issue going here, but there is none...we love each other and trust each other but it does become a problem when she hides things like this from me...A couple of days ago when we were abt to go to bed, she got a text from her ex telling her his new number and asking her to call him....when i asked her wht I was going on, she said that they were merely good frnds and so since he'd changed his number, so wanted to give it to me I should not think much into it and I should stop getting insecure...during the conversation she also mentioned tht they exchange mails evry now n then...The thing is I might have some reservations abt her talking to the ex but then again, I expect her to be truthful abt this to me if they are just friends....It just doesn't makes any sense to me...Plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): It's all about trust. Give her your trust. If things don't fall into place and she's the one to screw it up, then it's better to be now than after tying the knot. good luck.
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reader, RoxxiSanders +, writes (1 May 2008):
If you are very much in love, you have nothing to worry about. I can tell you for a fact that i am still exceedingly close to one of my exs but i would never think of getting back together with him...ever. You seem like a very nice guy and if she loves you, she won't do anything stupid. Try talking to her about the subject, don't be accusatory but just tell her that sometimes you get worried. Alternatively, take her out and show her how much you love her...this should help you to see if she loves you as much. As you said, you are in love so you have to share your feelings and as long as you do it in a sensitive way and tell her that you sometimes get scared of losing her...it'll all work out.
Share your feelings and it'll be sorted out in no time.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncan some1 also tell wats the best way to react in this situation...given they are actually jst frnds....I don't want to hurt her or offend her by doing something stupid...
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