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writes: Dear cupid,I`ve been with my partner for 15 years, married for 3years. We have 1 daughter. Like most relationships we've had our ups and downs.I recently found text messages and a letter from someone she works with expressing feelings of love. This other person is also married with children, and I don't believe he will leave his wife. I confronted her with this and she said nothing has happened and I believe her.We talked and she says she feels trapped and just wants to be alone. She's never been by herself before and feels like she's losing her identity. She doesn't want to hurt anyone but she doesn't know what to do.She wants to take it day by day with no pressure, but I feel like I'm losing her. I love her so much, this is killing me.I`ve told her and written to her about how much she means to me but it doesn't seem to be enough.Please help. I can't go like this anymore. D x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2005): honstly, I pity you.your wife has given up her time to be alone. she has made an unbreakable oath to you to be one with you until death. not only that, but by having children, this responsibility is greater. that part that is confusing is that if she wants to be alone, why does not say anything to the co worker. I would ask her to tell him to stop. If she says no, I personally would do it.It's good you trust your wife. let her know you trust her, but also let her know that this co-worker bothers you.
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