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writes:My sister owe's me money since 2006, i keep asking her every month but she promises to give it to me but never does yet she can fix her husbands car every month i am no longer working but that doesn't seen to matter to her and i also have bills to pay and a child to see to i've already threatened her with small claims court , i was even thinking if i see her purse laying around and find money in it i'll take what belongs to me and thereafter inform her i took what belongs to me and say thank you . PLS advise me what should i do cause i need the money she owes me i'm unemployed?
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reader, Fay +, writes (18 August 2009):
Fay is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCrylgo and Vodkaalt thank u so much for ur support and great advice i went as far as getting a letter of demand from small claims court and when i wanted to give her the letter my mother stopped me so telling me i must hold on for her pay day but my plan was give it today so that she knows she must give it on pay day or we go to court pls little more support and advice and thank u in advance p.s i started asking for the money now she wants to move out and not speaking to me , she more angry than i am LOL. By the way they stay with my parents and i .
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reader, Fay +, writes (18 August 2009):
Fay is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCrylgo and Vodkaalt thank u so much for ur support and great advice i went as far as getting a letter of demand from small claims court and when i wanted to give her the letter my mother stopped me so telling me i must hold on for her pay day but my plan was give it today so that she knows she must give it on pay day or we go to court pls little more support and advice and thank u in advance p.s i started asking for the money now she wants to move out and not speaking to me , she more angry than i amlol
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): First let me ask how much the loan was for?
Second--Never lend money you plan to try and get back.
Consider it gone! I say this for two reasons;
1-It causes heartache and tons of problems
2-Its not worth it.
This is your sister! Not some random stranger! You say she is fixing her husbands car all the time and odds are she cannot repay the loan.
I understand your predicament having been there on my own. But I have learned to let things go... So Consider the money gone and try to move on with your relationship.
good luck
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reader, vodkablue  +, writes (6 July 2009):
im so sorry this is happening to youits even worse that its your sister-which means that you will be more hurt than if this was a friend you lent to.i wouldnt take any money from her purse-i can understand the frustration but she could call the police as technically they will see this as theft-ironic considering she owes you.i would get in touch with a citizens advice bureauconsidering youre also on a low income they could asvise you of where to obtain some legal aid in terms of taking this to court.i hope your sister sees sense. you sound like a lovely sister and you certainly do not deserve the selfish treatment your sisters giving you.take care hunny and please keep strong and update us xx
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