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My problem is that I have a bent penis, and don't know if I can really pleasure her!

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Question - (14 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, this is a subject that I've tried to research a lot on and I really can't seem to come up with a good answer. My problem is that I have a bent penis. It's pent to the left at about 30 or 40 degrees. My girlfriend says she sometimes feels everything to her right side when we are intimate but she says it doesn't bother her "too much". We were both virgins and as far as I know, the only people we've ever made love to is each other. So, sometimes I wonder if I am really pleasuring her or would she be more pleasured by someone with a "normal" penis? She doesn't complain about our sex life at all, but I just really want to please her sexually as much as I can and I don't know if I can reach that full potential with my bent penis.

If there are any of you out there with a similar problem or answers please help. Suggest positions we could try or if it really can be pleasurable as it should be. I haven't been able to find any good places suggesting good positions for people like me and I would gladly appreciate it if I got a few suggestions. I'm sure other people would love to know as well.

If not tell me your experiences with penises like mine..not to sound immature.

Thank you!

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A male reader, falible United Kingdom +, writes (15 October 2010):

if it bends to the left try laying her on her right side and kneeling when you have sex so your penis should push against the top wall of her vagina as the g-spot is ment to be located there your bend could help you please her in this case.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010):

There is a condition called Peritonitis. It caused a bend to appear in the penis (when erect) over time. If you've always had a bent one then it may not be that, but if it has got worse over time you should go to your doctor - it can get much worse. There are surgical options to straighten it out.

Don't want to scare you though!

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (14 October 2010):

person12345 agony auntAs women we really don't have many nerve endings in our vagina. When we enjoy sex it comes from a full feeling (which doesn't require a big penis, just something in there), the stimulation of our labia, and the stimulation of the clitoris (and it you do it right, sometimes the stimulation of the G-spot). Don't worry so much about what your penis is doing inside her, almost all penises bend in some direction or another, think more about how you can use that pubic bone and those fingers on the outside! Besides, if you worry about "poking" her in the wrong place, you'll just have to invent new and exciting sex positions.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (14 October 2010):

BrownWolf agony aunt

If you can get it in...let the games begin :)

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