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writes:Hi i just need to tell this to someone. It is about my parents they are always fighting. Actually my dad always starts first to yell at my mom and it is always becouse of my grandmother(my fathers's mother)She and my mum are like cat and dog. They are arguing a lot, and becouse of that my father always protect his mother and starts saying very bad things to my mum.Like yestrday they started fighting again and they yelled at each other a lot and my dad said to my mom if she doesn't stop he will hit her. It is about takeing sides i dont want to choose any. My sister is on the side of my mum and my grandmother at my dad's side and i am in the middle. My mum says that i should be on her side becouse of the way that he threatens her and my dad obvioslly wants me on his side.HElP PLEAS which side should i be. If i get at my mum's side dad will be wrangled with me, and if i take dad's side mum will think that i don't love her and that i support my dad which is not true help what should i do.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 if i were in your shoes, i would go down and give the lot of them a damn good earful!!!
How dare they raise their voices, threaten each other, force their kids to take sides etc. This is ultimately going to end up really badly if the worst should happen.
Is there an aunt or uncle, or trusted friend who you could go to if things got rough? I'm a massive believer in shock tactics, so if there is somewhere you can go, tell everyone that you are sick to death of all the fighting, you have school to concentrate on, and that you are not prepared to stay under the same roof anymore. Then pack a bag and go!
But the other poster is right, you need to have a talk with your parents. Maybe they would sit up and listen to you if you have not spoken out before. Best of luck hun, i really hope your family can work things out.
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reader, lovedoctorlauren +, writes (20 February 2011):
I have the same problem with parents always fight. They had a fight todayand it was one of there worst yet. Well I can tell you that you or your sister shoudn't take sides on this and your dad shouldnt threaten your mum I think you need to talk to your parents and tell them how can you pick between them and you are worried about the situation. I do that and most of the time it helps
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