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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Im a 17 year old girl from london...Ok so here it goes...November 7th 2010 i met a guy who is from America, California...he was here in london for a holiday on his own...so we exchanged emails and numbers..he went home and emailed me right away..we started talking more and more...we got really close...and he said he was going to see me over the new year so we could spend new years eve together(2011)...he said this to me in about January 2011...i didnt think it would come to anything...over the year we had out ups and downs...i found alot of stuff on the internet to make me think could i even trust him..he had a lot of dating sites...and porn sites...i told him i saw them and he stopped the dating sites..but kept the porn sites...they didnt bother me too much as i know EVERY guy watched porn..i fell in love with him...he was and is my first love. He said he was willing to wait for me..and i trusted him...untill about June 2011 he came online and said he had kissed another girl who he worked with..he mentioned her a few times to me that she flirted with him...but i trusted him..so it didnt bother me..but wow it hurt so much...i forgave him and he said he really loved me and it was a stupid mistake...a month after that he booked flights to come to london...i was over the moon...and i couldnt wait...December 30th 2011...i went to the airport to meet him...seeing him walk out was just the best thing ever...we spent 4 amazing days together....and i lost my virginty to him...and it felt so right he made it so special for me...it was only his second time...he is 20 years old...So i told my parents about him soon after i met him...they was up to meeting him and for some reason it all changed and they didnt want to meet him because they didnt like the situation and they said i was too young to be waiting around from a guy who lived half way aroud the world from me. i was upset about that...and now they tell me they dont want me talking to him anymore...but how can i not...i love him..and he loves me....My question is...can i trust him...and what would you do in my situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): It is hard to sustain a relationship with such a distance. Even for older, more established couples it is not easy. As you are both young - the thought that you are putting your life on hold for each other is worrying. It could all work out but your parents are right to be concerned. How do you know that he isn't dating girls in his country? My advice is to try to keep things light, enjoy life, go out and don't exclude real life in the here and now.
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