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51-59,
*ady d
writes:I was involved with a guy for a period of time. I left him because of his womanising ways. Since then my niece saw it fit to contact him and send him dirty pictures of herself to him and he send to her. My niece knew he and I were involved. I stopped speaking to her almost a year ago for the reason that she wanted his number to make contact with him.She said all kinds of things about him, but it just meant that she wanted him. Now that I left him, he has agreed to see her. Tell me, what is so wrong with this picture, I want to know if i need to confront her or him for their nasty ways. This is despicable. My niece wants to sleep with every man she can get her claws into.
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reader, Paula4u  +, writes (22 January 2013):
 Let it go, dirt attracts dirt, rise above it, find happiness and ignore them. Good luck. Hugs
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013): You know that she's got skanky ways and he obviously seems to like that about her as she is probably easy pickings . . . So I say leave them alone.
Don't bother yourself with this whole situation. Direct your attention towards things that add value to your life. Leave your niece and your ex, they deserve each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013): lady d you know what your niece is like, why are you letting it bother you?
You haven't spoken to her in a year, I don't see why you're letting this bother you, he's an ex, so you obviously don't think he's worth your time, you don't like her or what she does. Just ignore it, no point in letting it bother you.
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reader, agonyauntsanonymous  +, writes (22 January 2013):
Its true you dont have any say in it and honestly it sounds like they are good for each other. You were right to leave. Hes her problem now. It is dipicable Im sure your family thinks so too. Try to keep yourself busy and dont think about it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 January 2013):
 Actually he's your ex so you have no say in it.
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reader, R1 +, writes (22 January 2013):
 I totally understand how you feel and would want to do the same if it was me! But when you step back and think about it you realise confronting them wouldn't make you feel any better and I doubt it would stop either of them behaving the way they do. You need to try and put the resentment and bitterness to one side. It will hurt but if you focus on making yourself feel better then you can ignore them.
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