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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My neighbour kissed me tonight. We are both married and I am scared to death. It was just a flirty teasing relationship, but now I'm just freaked out. We both find each other very attractive and it's difficult to "act normal". I can see this turning out awful. What do I do? How do I bring back normal?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 Knock off this nonsense and behave yourself and things will go back to normal.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (6 May 2011):
Well, "normal" is out of the question for the foreseeable future. If you value your marriage, you need to cut ties with your neighbor -- I mean all ties --- immediately. At the same time, you need to take stock of your marriage and try to figure out what's missing there that's causing you to kiss other married men. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011):
Tell you husband. Tell his wife. Come clean and beg for forgiveness. Hope you have a forgiving spouse. Most would be forgiving of this, but you have permanently damaged your relationships. They will NEVER be the same.
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reader, hope_i_could_help  +, writes (6 May 2011):
 You can't bring back normal after what happened that night. The real problem is the two of you and how you feel about each other. It is difficult to not like each other anymore when you already built an understanding.
Just choose on what you think is right and what you think will make you happy.
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