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writes:I recently moved in with my bf were goin to have a baby girl in 2 months. I thought that we had a perfect relationShip and that he was faithful to me so I didn't think twice about moving in specially bcuz now were goin to have a daughter but I came to find out that he was talking to other girlS while he was working out of town. I looked threw hiS old cellphone he recently got a new one with a Different number these texts are from jan and december they are different numbers to one of them especially refers to as baby! I am devastated I'm pregnant, 19 and moved out my moms house and I'm unemployed! I don't know what to do should I leave him and go back home to my mom's or should I stay? so confused can't stop crying. Plz help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): I've often used the word 'baby' with girls that I'm freinds with and in NO WAY attracted to or involved with. It's a term of endearment, but all I mean by it is that we're closer than a simple friend.
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reader, just a female  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 ok i know some guys throw around the word 'BABY' like its the word "sup" but i still dont think calling another girl baby allows him to get off guilt free.
diffinatly talk to hi about it because this has bothered you.no harm in smoothing this out.
you say your about to have a baby so now more than never you need to trust your man. if you cannot you should not have allowed him to get you pregnant.
as long as you dont find any evidense that he has been physically cheating on you or has progressed to saying i love you to other girls there probably isnt the need to worry to much
but you do have the right to be upset. i would be to if my BF called a girl i did no know baby. all you need to do is trust that he wont do anything with any one else.
congrats with your baby girl and i hope everything goes well with you two.
xxxx
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reader, BriBri +, writes (2 February 2011):
A guy calls every girl "baby" so dont get upset.And i bet he wans you jealous so ddont sweat it,its nothing.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (2 February 2011):
 Talk to your Mom. She will give you a shoulder to cry on and will most likely have some good advice for you.
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