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My lover prefers oral all the time. How can I get him to be less fixated on oral and more on intercourse?

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Question - (30 November 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2011)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

How do I get my man to engage in intercourse at times; instead of oral sex all the time?

Am I not doing something I should be doing?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2011):

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Double M;Thank you also; for your answer to my question about him always wanting oral sex.From both of you answering being men;you should know!I will put it in action!Anonymous

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (1 December 2011):

DoubleM agony auntSimilar to the "male reader" response, you could consider withholding the oral until your pleasure is realized. Me thinks he has become addicted to your oral treatments without having to please you. It is easy to do, and I have been tempted into that mindset in the past, by girlfriends who loved giving head, but ultimately learned that first "giving" means even better receiving. It is much better to keep a girlfriend pleased and happy, then they love to suck and swallow. You could try that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011):

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To a male reader;thank you for your answer to my question of always him wantiong oral sex instead of intercourse.This relieves me quite a bit;especially hearing it from a man.I was hesitant in asking because I am very private and old-fashioned when it comes to sexual relations.I thank you so much.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011):

What you should be doing is taking control of this situation and instead of giving him the option of just oral sex, be a dominator during sex, get him wound up then give him no choice but intercourse by climbing on him and showing him that you are in charge and that you need your satisfaction and It's not just a one sided thing.

Alternatively you can simply sit down with him and tell him how you feel about it, guys are notorious for loving any idea if it involves sex just let him know you would like to have times of simply intercourse and not just contsant oral, majority of men will be happy with that, I mean come on you're still offering them some form of pleasure?

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