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anonymous
writes:I need help pleeeease =/Me and my bf of 1.5 years have been having a few issues, mainly with him saying that he thought I was cheating on him because of a certain misunderstanding. Either way we somewhat started to move on and yet I wasn't really happy.However I think the problem is deeper than this, there are other things happening in my life. I believe I have depression, even though I haven't been to a doc. I am having to make decisions on what to do after college and have no idea, troubles with my bf, very low self confidence (often hate myself / appearance / lack of doing exciting things), dealing with one of my family members deceiving me and ending up in major trouble. To be honest I don't know what to do, but I have come to the conclusion that because I don't feel like I can control my emotions or any of these situations, I have started controlling the only thing I can. Which is my emotions for my bf, even though I have forgiven him cos I saw his point of view, I am still not happy with him, keeping him at a distance for no reason really etc. Maybe this is just because that is ALL i can control.Its making me feel pretty bad, if anything worse because I love him and miss him.Whats wrong with me???? HELP please =/ Ace x
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 You believe you have depression but you haven't gone to a doc yet?
Maybe it's time you do. Talk to your school counselor, your parents, perhaps attend some therapy sessions, see a doctor. You need help getting a handle on controlling your emotions.
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