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My LDR met an old friend and now it's bothering me

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Question - (27 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *m2011 writes:

I am in a long distance relationship ,about 3 hours away . Last week my boyfriend told me he met an old female friend at the gym ,he told her she looked well and she looked nice . She knew he had a girlfriend and asked him for his mobile number ,my boyfriend couldn't remember it so he gave her his email address and told her he might meet with her .He received the email and deleted it .He said he will not meet her ,it didn't bother me at the time ,but now it is . She has moved to the same town as him ,i know i can trust him ,but am i being silly ? many thanks for reading this .

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012):

it's too soon to be worried. They weren't even bf/gf ever, right? you said she's just an old friend. So what if she moved back to his town and wants to reconnect - people reconnect with old friends all the time. Doesn't mean they're gonna suddenly become best friends after years of silence.

don't worry.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (27 March 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntI never can remember my own cell phone number...

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (27 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHE told you….

SHE KNEW he has a girlfriend

He gave her the email address (how can you not know your own mobile number????) and the deleted the email….

Why is this bothering you?

How long have you been a couple?

What are your plans for closing the distance?

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2012):

oldbag agony auntclueless why he needed to relate the trivial meet word for word to you . I would say to much information honey . its one thing being honest but all thats achieved is you feeling rubbish. yes your being silly but thats down to him Not saying he shouldnt have mentioned it just abbreviated it so it wasnt important which it isnt.

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