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My husbands lies make no sense...what can I do??

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Question - (13 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *ndia writes:

My husband has been denying his affairs, and he always lieing.I went into his shop one night with his keys because,something just isn't right with him.So I open the doors and cabins and I found his boxer that he worn to work whenever to work in a bag hidden behind his cleaning materials.I question him about it ,and then he said that I frame him first.

And then he said it could've fell out with his towels that he had wash for work.Which the towels are on one side of the shop, and the boxer were found in his work station behind cleaning materials wrapped up in a walmart bag.I know that I am not a dimey:(

But this doesn't make sense to me at all.

He is always out to lunch around 2:00-3:00 an never answers his phone when I called. He is the only barber and only person working their.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008):

Hi Hunny

SWEET-THING Has a valid point here, Catch the I hid my boxers behind my cleaning matierials YEA OK! Get that wig n sunglasses and make the dude jump hunny catch him in his lunch hr sorry to here about your situation hunny it must be so unhappy for you TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008):

You can buy a product called FollowMe (look on line) which means you can track your mobile phone on a map. Turn your phone to silent and leave it hidden in his car. See where he goes at lunchtime then after you see a pattern follow him there. You can only do this to your phone, not his because it is illegal to do that without him knowing. You may be worrying too much, I know what that is like, hence I know about tracking people! I was wrong and you may be too.

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2008):

Sweet-thing agony auntI think it's time for you to borrow a friend's car and plant yourself in the neighborhood around the time you think he'll be popping out of his shop to go to lunch (or you'll be able to see who pops in to see him)...If he leaves the shop, follow him. Buy a wig and a pair of sunglasses and slide into the cafe, bar or restaurant where he goes in to "eat"....you should get an answer pretty quick if he's meeting someone. There may be other things you'll need to check -- like his cell phone, his email account. Perhaps you'll discover that nothing is going on except an overactive imagination and a greatly suspicious wife. Either way, you'll get to the bottom of your suspicions, or put your fears to rest once and for all. I wish you the best.

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