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My husband never wants to have sex with me

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Question - (28 April 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2013)
A female United States age 51-59, *arried to my self writes:

i just wish he would come on to me or somebody! I'm 43 and lonely. whenever I try to have some time alone with him he always make sure that he bring someone home with him I've got a friend or something or just blows me off I almost thought about having sex for money I feel so ugly and gross if he doesn't want me to who would? I weigh 175 blonde hair brown eyes I look okay but not great who'd want to pay me to have sex?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2013):

You weigh 175lbs - that's your problem right there. Now we don't know your height, but I'm willing to bet your BMI indicates obesity. And that's probably what's turning him off.

If a guy wants to have sex, he'll do whatever he can to get it. If he doesn't want to have sex, it's because of only two reasons: 1) There's something wrong with his equipment or 2) He's not attracted to his counterpart and thus can't get his equipment to work.

Try taking better care of yourself, even just a little bit, and see what happens. I'm sure just the thought of improving upon yourself physically will get him interested in you again.

Cheers.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (29 April 2013):

Why don't you forget about the money part and cheat on him? I'm a firm believer that if the person you're married to won't sleep with you, you should either leave them or just cheat if you're otherwise happy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2013):

Do what I do buy a dong and I tell you the feel is so real... Until u guys figure out why he doesn't want to have sex with you...

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