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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My husband keeps cheating on me He gives me large amounts of money take care of his kids and pay all my bills we have been married for 5 years and have 3 beautiful girls ages 4, 3, 2, I'm 24 and he's 28 He's never home I'm gettng tired of this and lonely I want to cheat so bad He give me no respect just money I don't work I just attend school He want take me anywhere his mother or family don't like me she allows phone calls from other women also allow him to bring women to her house I don't go their or take my kids. What should I do?
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reader, bitch +, writes (26 December 2009):
You need to end this non caring non loving relationship you are in. Find a way to support yourself, move out or kick him out, and take care of yourself starting now. Don't allow him to cheat. Tell him this bad relationship is OVER. Why stay in a marriage that is not even really a true marriage with respect and love? You can do much better than this guy....
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): is his name tiger? weigh things out, then maybe dump his as if it the right thing to do,but nobody should put up with that shit and for his mom,well,she sounds like a prize herself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Leave him. He and his family obviously have no respect for you. Why allow them to degrade you like that? You might aswell work in a brothel. For your own wellbeing leave him.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 December 2009):
 Tough one you gotta play this smart though.
Ok so hes cheating but if he was home all the time he would probably drive you crazy any way and you would probably just nag him to death. He gives use large sums of money pays all the bills sounds like you got it made to me.
OK look you could divorce him and all that messy stuff but you have to decide the pros and cans of divorce, You have chilldren anything you do will affect their lives.
Your a chick you think with your heart and emotions but your gonna have to think a little more logically rite now your in school raising for kids how will you manage on your own im not saying you cant but you gotta figure out how.
Men cheat why Ask God its encoded into there bone structure, not all men cheat but many do thats life other then his unfaithfulness your guy doesn't seem so bad is he abusive or mean, hes paying everything so hes not a deadbeat.
You want to cheat just to get back at him but that wont help anything, Basically your just a lonely emotionally neglected wife that wishes her husband still wanted her in some way. I would suggest trying to get this guy to understand that dont forget to use the puppy dog eyes. I doubt you can do anything at this point to be honest so plan B stick it out till you get your degree and get a job then tell him you want a divorce/
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 December 2009):
 If not for your children, those innocent baby girls, my suggestion would be for you to exit the marriage. But the children are most important, although your husband is apparently a total jerk and cares little if what you say is certain.
It is said that, "What is good for the goose is good for the gander." In other words, if he is out spreading his seeds, then it would be fair that you can enjoy other men on the sly. Many married women do that, but it will certainly be no ticket to happiness, nor any good at all for the family.
Nevertheless, if your young husband is truly out cheating on you, then you have married a cad who does not value or deserve a family.
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 Simple. Divorce him and collect the support cheques. His mother sounds like an asshole, and that's probably where he inherited the trait from. Do you really want to raise your girls around a male who has no respect for women? They deserve better and so do you.
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