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writes: My huband is navy. He comes out in two years. He has just walked out on me just an hour ago. He says that i am holding him back and he wants more out of life.He says he is worried sick about the future.but i found a ripped up email he had sent to some one on board his old ship. And i think he is having an affair yet again. i could be wrong he says he isnt what can i do? I have no family or friends around me.Please help me i dont no which way to turn debbie
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reader, Yos  +, writes (6 July 2006):
 That is horrible. You must feel awful.
The guy is your husband. He needs to at least give you the truth if he's going to do something like that to you. That he 'wants more out of life' is his issue, not your issue. Being with you has nothing to do with that.
Yes it does sound like an excuse, although it might just be that he is depressed or having a hard time. (whichever, he has no excuse to behave like that to you).
He owes you a complete explanation. Don't go after him accusing him of having an affair, or he'll just fight back. Ask him in as gentle way as possible, what is going on and what he is feeling. Tell him he is your husband and at the very least should give you a truthful explanation.
I hope the man comes back soon having realized he's just made the worst mistake of his life. But either way, i hope it works out ok for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2006): Debbie,
I am terribly sorry to hear that you are in such fear and pain in the moment. I would suggest saying some prayers and asking God for guidance in this moment, because HE is always there for you.
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