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I feel bad because my husband is frustrated as his orgasms are not as long and pleasurable! What's wrong?

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Question - (11 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my husband and i have had great sex for 3years this past year when we have sex he gets frusterated because his orgasm isn't long and pleasurable and i feel bad and sometimes i don't even get satisfied he says it's not me oh and he used to have mutiple orgasms do you have any advise we love each other and miss our great sex

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (12 September 2008):

DoubleM agony auntNot much information offered, but all of us go through phases. At his probable age, any long-term result of this nature should be short-lived if he is healthy and has not lost interest in the relationship. One suggestion might be to spice things up a bit, but you did not say enough about what you are doing (or not).

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (11 September 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntMy husband and I had the same issue after having a flawless sex life, it got to the point where we simply stopped doing it as much, so, I bought a couple of good porns, a little costume he would enjoy, and a sex toy for myself in case he finished before I was ready. He has no problem using the toy on me if I had not yet been satisfied, which solved the frustration that he had and the need for satisfaction that I had. There is no problem with needing a little help in the bedroom, especially if it works getting the sex life that you know and love back;)

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