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My husband has fallen in love with a friend and blames me. So what does the quote mean that describes what he did?

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Question - (17 January 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2012)
A age 41-50, * writes:

Many people have long time emotional affairs but keep saying that they are just friends.

My husband also did it to me...very nice and obedient to his friend and very worst and ignoring to me..then fell in love with her.

Feels guilty and confused..and blamed me for this.

[that I should stop and fight with that girl

Or me should be more attractive and sexy.but that it is another story]

Then I read a quote, that apparently describes what he did:

"That ackward moment when you fall in love with your best friend."

I want to know its meaning with detail please?

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A male reader, _raj_ India +, writes (17 January 2012):

he can explain the quote! but kindly pray for a while and try to see whether your part is completely genuine. it is difficult to maintain a relationship going long. but it is easy to break up. but a break up must ensure - no more damages.

Kindly don't see alone. see you and your husband as one. with your dedication and love he will all be for you.

A man can not cheat his loved one, though he may make mistakes.

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (17 January 2012):

I think first of all that the quote is really intended for two single people who are friends and fall in love. Its awkward to cross that bridge, knowing that your relationship will never be the same after that. And that is all that really means.

I think the quote that really applies here is "That awkward moment that you realize you really want to cheat on your wife and have been repressing it".

Poetry does not justify anything.

Fix him.

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