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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): Hii think u should go for it he is the closet person to your husband and like shelley jade said he might remind u of your husband best of luck !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): Follow your heart and go for it. You are not with his brother now plus your family and friends will get used to it. If you both want to be in a relationship together then why not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): i know of someone this happened to she was left with 5 children 4 boys and 1 girl well to cut along story short the were both catholic right into religion and they are married now with the church blessing a just love a happy ending you go for it
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Life is to short to live it by how other people expect you to live it.
It could be a coincidence you have fallen for someone of your husband's family.
If you love him and he loves you, then it is not wrong if you are both single and can make each other happy.
Relatives may need time adjusting but if they really care for you they will let you decide who you choose to spend your life with.
It is your decision at the end of the day.
Good luck
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
 This is such a hard one to answer. I'm sure nobody in your family expects you to stay single for the rest of your life and two years is quite enough time to mourn but it will be controversial if you start seeing your brother in law. If it's what you both want and you're sure about that then you'll be prepared to take whatever hassles come your way as a result of this decision but if it all seems like too much it might not be meant to be. Also, are you completely sure that you're not confusing affection with love? After all I assume your brother in law was there for you when your husband died and that can form a very strong connection between two people, but it doesn't necessarily mean you're meant to be together.
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reader, Shelley-jade +, writes (17 January 2007):
 You feel close to him perhaps because he reminds you alot of your late husband.
Do not worry about what other people might say. If you two both want this then you shoud go for it.
Remember your husband would want you to be happy.
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