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female
age
41-50,
*oreen
writes:right now, i know my husband cheats on me.i saw a receipt that he send money to this girl, spent his credit card to her. he promised to be with us during holy week but 2 days before,he left and said something happened in his other area. so i traveled 8 hours with our kids to be with him but found out his not there. i called him, and said he'll be with us after 2 days.. im very depressed right now. i tried to be strong in front of the kids but i have no strength to show them.. i just cry whenever i feel im alone... im a nurse, but my salary cant help us stand on our own. financially i need him. what will i do? i really need your help :'(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): Hi Hunny
I agree with country woman, You need to find all the help and advise you can. Find out if there is a support group in your area and do lots of homework so you can go forward and feel safe that you have got support...Im going to send you a link on self esteem as you need to get strong hunny to cope with all this....
http://www.womensselfesteem.com/index.html
Hunny you need to get strong to face all these problems I do hope you find a way to go forward with this and find happiness much luck to you sweetheart WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Sweetheart he is not supporting you and your children emotionally and if he is cheating on you and spending money on another woman then he does not care anymore.
Surely you can get some financial help from the government or something as other single mothers must get support or he must be made to pay for his children in some way if you decide to go down this route.
Have you checked out your legal rights at all?
You need to start making a plan and finding out what help you can get, don't tell him what you are doing right now just get yourself organised as you may be suprised what you are entitled to, they are his children and he must have to support them financially.
You say you need him financially but from the sounds of things that is all you need him for as he has deceived you and after driving for 8 hours to be with him and he had lied to you I think I would be angry not depressed. You need to find your inner strength as that is what will make you strong and that is what you need. Don't let him make you feel so depressed he is the one who has cheated and so you have nothing to feel bad about.
You are the victim here and you need to make him pay - well financially I mean. There must be some sort of legal service or support network that can advise you of your legal rights.
Just start to feel a little angry inside and you will feel stronger believe me.
Here for you if you ever need to chat OK.
BFN
Country Woman
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