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36-40,
*iser
writes:Ok Ive hit rock bottom once again. I cant sleep, eat, if this aint depression i dont no what is. Nothing helps anymore and i can't seem to do anything about it.My GF over the past week has gone from i need space to my feelings have changed for you, she never wants to see me, and she said hopefully we will stay how we are for your sake. She also has said she feels enclosed, when we actually only spent one night in the week together and i rang her once a day....Yet when i back off she often comes running back. I say it takes 2 for a relationship. Even when i speak on the phone with her she seems so distant and uninterested. She has been like this before with me, we broke up. I really do not want to break up with her once again, when we get on so well usally. How do i cope? How can i talk to her and bring back the magic we once had... The pain is too much to bear! Hopefully she will see me tonight and we can talk, hoepfully for the best.
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reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (10 February 2007):
well ask ureself is this girl worth it i mean shes telling you plain in simple shes not interested and it can be so hard on you but youve got to understand shes not the world, shes just another girl in it so dont feel your world has ended over this one girl move on but tell her how you feel best of luck
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (10 February 2007):
 Hi Jiser, sorry to hear you're suffering so much! It's terrible when someone blows hot & cold and you don't know where you stand! My advice would be to send her one(last) letter, hand written and words carefully chosen. Explain how you feel about her and the things that you love about her. Make sure to explain that you desire her in your life but don't NEED her. Then do NOTHING. Just move on and forget about her. Go out with you single friends and do some fun stuff. You can't live like this so you have to have a complete break! If you really can't cope go see your family doctor he will help. Message me directly if you need more help. Take care and be strong.
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