He's started talking to me for no reason... do you think he likes me?
Q. i need ur opinion.today i had midterm exams and the guy sitting behind me is 1 year older..he has never talked to me as he is in grade 12 and im in 11th. but yesturday he asked me what did the teacher have up on the board... then today he asks me ...
A. 31 March 2007: heya well maybe he was nervous and so needed reasurance and with you by him smiling he thought hed chat to a happy face! ask him how he is and if hed like to meet up to chat about stuff and if it turns out he does like you go for it! but dont scare ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me 3 months ago, now he's like a bodyguard to me where other men are concerned!
Q. my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. At the time we were working together and i got laid off shortly after. During these 3 months he would call me like once a week (if even that) just to see how i was doing. I just went back to the job two weeks ...
A. 31 March 2007: hey maybe hes rethinking breaking up with you as hes realizing he cant go on alone as he thought he would but its up to you really do you want him back? if not you should tell him to back off and get on with his own life it may sound harsh but its ... (read in full...)
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Q. Hi folks, this is Andrew, site guy here. I've added a new link to the main navigation bar called "articles"... I'm looking for anyone who is good with words to share their wisdom :-) All articles will be linked to from your profile page,...
A. 31 March 2007: hey this is a really good syte i wouldnt be without i was just wondering you no on your own page well i have lots of questions that i asked months ago that have stopped being answered i want to delete them and start like a new page as a refresh as ... (read in full...)
We met on the internet, one minute hes 16, then 18, but now hes saying hes 20, Im 14 and confused as I love him!!
Q. Hello...I am fourteen years old and I am dating a guy who is nineteen turning twenty a month before I turn fifteen...I met him over the internet and first he said he was sixteen. Then he told me he was eighteen and then he said he was seventeen ...
A. 31 March 2007: heya well i just want to say to you to get out right now ! it may seem harsh and you may feel its love but im so sowwi to say i doubt he feels the same way as you do. if i were you id go out with my mates shopping,bowling or just hanging ot seeing ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my guy about periods and things ? Surely most guys dont want to know!?
Q. I know this sounds silly, but OK, here goes: Im kind of weird about talking about stuff that's very female. Like periods and stuff. I've known my boyfriend for a month and a half, and now I'm on my period!! How do I talk to him about it?...
A. 31 March 2007: hey well i know how you feel but given the right signal your guy should work it out and so each month exsect you to be moody and whiney (its normal!) but if you feel you really want him to know the ins and outs then sit him down and just tell him ... (read in full...)
We broke up as he cheated, He said we can be friends, but where do I draw the line as I was so supportive to him!
Q. My boyfriend of six months and I broke up. He cheated on me. But i still care about him!!! I can't seem to let him go. He said we could still be friends but it was up to me and I said yes. He's going through a REALLY hectic, stressful time in his ...
A. 31 March 2007: heya i read your problem and its pretty difficult to be in your shoes i mean lets not forget he did cheat but dont let him force you by making you feel guilty everyone has problems (not just him)but if you feel you can forgive him for what hes done ... (read in full...)
Want to ask her out but I'm shy and afraid. Help!
Q. Dear Friends and Readers I am a single 15 year old guy I go to church and school and I am very active in the community service I visit retierment homes and volenter at homeless centers I am what you would call an outcast and I am...
A. 17 March 2007: hey well if you really like her then just go for it i no its hard but you dont have anything to loose and you say shes playful towards you she must like you to then! if you go for it you may be surprised to see the out come she may feel the sameits ... (read in full...)
Why can I not seem to get a boyfriend?
Q. no matter how hard i try i cnt getta boyfriend! i hav had boyfriends before and i felt alot happier but they didnt last very long! my friend sed i am not ugly it is because i am abit moody how can i make myself more happy! i am always laughin a...
A. 16 March 2007: Hey take it easy woman, guys aint everything but I admit they help! I've beenn single for soo long after a few relationships went a little downhill but I kept my options open, waited and I'm happy again! You have to give it time but I made the ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him, do you think he's angry with me?
Q. Dear Cupid, A few days ago, my crush (whom I have been deeply in love with for the past two years...no, not just puppy love...I felt for him like I've never felt for anyone else in my entire life) was basically forced against his will to move to ...
A. 16 March 2007: hey maybe hes just surprised he may not of thought you felt so deeply about him and after reading that he started to fel insecure (as boys lyke to be the ones in control!) but dont let it bother yoo so much youve made it clear how you feel its up ... (read in full...)
How can I make it clearer to him that I want him to kiss me!?
Q. hey! me and my bf are both 16 and have been togther for 2 months yesterday :) all we have done so far is hug ALL THE TIME! and about a month ago we kissed but we havent kissed since :( but i really want to! he is too tall for me to reach up and ...
A. 4 March 2007: wel why dnt you just tell him how ya feel he might feel the same way you neva no unless ya try gud luck soz tiz is short n sweet ... (read in full...)
Im 13, would it be okay to ask a boy out or should I wait for him to ask me ?
Q. i am thirteen and i like a boy in my year my friends say he likes me because he flirts and looks at me a lot is it ok to ask a boy out or should i wait for him to ask me out? ...
A. 4 March 2007: dnt wait! the boys prob thinkin the same thing ive bin in your situation and i let a good thing go because i didnt just go for it like you shud!! before its 2 l8 it may not seem like it but one day it will be your still young so dnt go rushin into ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Had DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? I want to hear your stories...
Q. Has DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? If so, please let me know. Either post here (anon if you prefer) or send me a private mail. Sometimes when I'm coding at midnight or tinkering with an errant database, or wondering wh...
A. 3 March 2007: yh i rele think dear cupid has changed my life im not going into details but lets just say it has given me i different outlook on life with just little advice id like to thank you (andrew0 and everyone who has taken time to help me out your site is ... (read in full...)
We have dated before, but it didnt work. We now know each other better, any advice to get him to date me again ?
Q. so theres this boy, and i really like him!! we went out already and it didnt work out because we didnt really know each other that well. it has been a several months since we broke up and now, ive got to know him better and im falling for him!! this ...
A. 23 February 2007: well firstly you need to tread carefully you don not know the full story of his latest break up he could still be upset and worse still still having hope for his ex on the other hand he may not be the guy you thought (think) he iz i mean why are ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do to put him out of my thoughts?
Q. I have been seperated from my ex for over 5 years, for some reason he still is on my mind and i have moved on as has he but i constantly see look-a-likes and i have had boyfriends since him, what can i do to get him out of my thoughts which i do not ...
A. 23 February 2007: maybe you are not as over him as you thought even though 5 years is a l o n g time ! why dont you meet up i meen they do say true love never dies! but if you dont want this keep trying to move on in todays world if you have loved before you will ... (read in full...)
How do I get my crush to stop bothering me??
Q. At my school, theres this boy who is pretty nice, but hes not my kind of a guy. He has this huge crush on me, and hes asked me out 3 times!! and all of the times, i kindly told him no but this v-day he sent me all these nice things, and he gave me ...
A. 23 February 2007: well you obviously need to make your feelings more clear to the poor guy hag round with other boys say youve got a boyfriend or you have just come out of a serious realtionship and you are not yet ready to commit and are still upset and emotional if ... (read in full...)
Why is Valentine's Day so depressing?
Q. Why is valentines day the worst most depressing day of the year every year?...
A. 14 February 2007: yh thanx kenny
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Q. Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...
A. 14 February 2007: i think your site is great as it iz and please please keep it this way its soooo cool!! its really helpped me and im always on it its as good as msn even betta lol keep up the good work !!... (read in full...)
We fight more often and he's gone quiet! He won't talk about it-what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. When we first met I had just lost a couple close friends in a car accident and was going through a pretty tough time. He pulled me through it. In a little more than a year we have been through a ...
A. 14 February 2007: your right to feel this way given your past experiances it must be hard for you but you must know that now hes not going to do anything else so its up to you to make the first move if you want the realtionship to last, explain to our byfriendask him ... (read in full...)
I'm really sick of my mum, sick of trying with her...
Q. ok my mum h8s me this may seem lyke all 13yr old girls goin through a stage but she really does im sic of tryin wif her any more and i think her and my dad r spilittin up (agen) so ill just live with him is it too late to even bother wif my mum nw ...
A. 14 February 2007: erm i didnt want to go in2 details and im crap at english so y bother its nt a lesson thanx 4 the advice everyone else and yoo ... (read in full...)
I think I'm depressed but what exactly are the symptoms?
Q. How do you know when you are depressed? What are the tell tales that someone is depressed? and who can you go to, or talk to?...
A. 13 February 2007: Well to start with maybe yoo shuld see your g.p, doctor of just a close friend or relative these days there are many ways to see if yoo are depressed and if soo how and why best of luck ... (read in full...)
I sooooo like this guy in school but don't know how to tell him.
Q. Hey once again! okay so there is this guy in my grade that i really like. he has a great personality and is one of those guys that can just make you laugh at nothin, and he's a ball to be around. well, i want to tell him that i like him, but i ...
A. 13 February 2007: wel play it cool but dropping hints at the same time. when you talk open up to him but dont come across as to full on. it seems hes a m8 to you so this is easier just start slow then go 4 it what have you gt to loose but in the long run if he ... (read in full...)
I like a guy and he likes me too, only problem is he friend also likes me so he won't act!
Q. I like a guy who likes me too, the only problem is that his best friend likes me too, so he won't act on his feelings. I feel like I'm backed into a corner, what should I do?...
A. 13 February 2007: well figure out which ONE you like i mean if they both like you then surly you get the easy part tell them both how you feel in this uncomfortable situation and they will see what they are doin is pretty complicated and try and make it better for ... (read in full...)
I would love to know more about her culture but I don't want to offend her in asking
Q. I am in a relationship with a girl who was born in China. We live in a rural area of England where nearly everyone is white (including me). I often have questions or discussions I want to start that involve her race but I feel like she may be ...
A. 12 February 2007: well it seems you like her, as your being sensitive of her feelings (girls love this!) just sit down and talk to her tell her about you and how you would like to know more about her if our open with her you will almost always get the same in return. ... (read in full...)
He's with someone else now but does he still have feelings for me?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend about 5 months ago as we decided it wouldnt work out with me goin 2 college and him staying on a sixth form as we thought we wouldnt see each other, he moved on and by the end of the month was getting together with ...
A. 12 February 2007: Personally i would just move on find someone new forget this boy. Hes tryed to move on maybe you should every time he sees yoo he might feel guilty and rethink how hes bin with you in the past and try to cheer you up as a m8 ure m8 is egging both of ... (read in full...)
She cheated and agreed to stop talking to him! But I want to still confront him..is this a good idea?
Q. hi I had just found out my girlfriend of 4 year and the mother of my 2 babys had cheat on me with a co-worker. i had already told her that if she wants to work it out she has to stop talking to him and stop seeing him. she agreed. but i want to ...
A. 12 February 2007: maybe you should try and forget it. move on. it's your g.f you need to concentrate on. if you're still living in denial every day about what happened the other week it will effect your realtionship. forget him. your g.f obviously has, as she's back ... (read in full...)
Why do I hate the taste of toothpaste? Is their something wrong?
Q. I brush my teeth twice a day, but for the last couple of months it has been weird. Every brand of toothpaste I use starts to taste disgusting. This happens with toothpaste I have used for years. It tastes like I am brushing my teeth with handsoap...
A. 12 February 2007: well maybe yoo should keep trying different brands, these days you can get different flavours and even colours!! or your problem could be more serious and maybe yoo should seek professional advice i.e your g.p doctor or even your dentist. but dont ... (read in full...)
He's promised me he'll never see his ex again because he loves me but I'm seeing MY ex behind his back
Q. I have taken back my boyfriend that cheated on me. Big mistake??? My b/f's relationship with his ex, was about 5 weeks long.I was good friends with his ex, until they split and we started a relationship.We have been going out for 2 1/2 yrs.Me a...
A. 11 February 2007: well what you've both done is wrong rather than feeling this way you need to tell him at least then you wont feel you're living a lie with him he obviously loves you and if you are over your ex make a go of it with him but sit down be honest tell ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex and now my best mate is dating him and I can't get over it!
Q. I'm havin a major dilemma i luv my best mate, shes dating my x and i cant get ovet him. He keeps ringing being nice and it's making me ill, im so fed up all the time. My best mate is like all i have and i cant forgive her but i just can't move on. ...
A. 11 February 2007: thanx 4 all advice... (read in full...)
I asked if she was single and she replied "its complicated...not really"
Q. Im a 19 yr old male in college. I met this girl recently through my classes and I like her alot. Shes a freshman, but we get along well and have good conversations. After the 3rd day of talking to her I finally asked her if she was single. She ...
A. 11 February 2007: well it seems she has strings attached but if you really like her you should be prepared for this but maybe she does like you theres only one way to find out ask her?! if she does then great if not then no loss move on
best of luck ... (read in full...)
I think my fiance has fallen out of love with me. How do I know for sure?
Q. i love my fiance so much but i think she has fallen out of love with me. she says she hasnt but how do i find out if she dont talk to me?...
A. 11 February 2007: just simply tell her yoo need to talk gt it all out in the open as your nt happy at how things r nd ure sure shes nt and this is nt how marriage should be if she cant talk to yoo than obviously there is a problem tell her this is worryin yoo and yoo ... (read in full...)
He's online and I sent him a message and he won't reply! What does that mean?
Q. ok this is another question like the one before i know this guy is for real i know it i sent him a message but he hasent replyed and i know he is online so wot do i do i really have the hots for him and i know he will understand me its just so hard ...
A. 11 February 2007: maybe he waz busy or nt actually there at all there iz a lot ov possabilitys dnt just jump to conclusions but on the other hand yoo may be comin on to strong DONT boys h8 this soo much just casually say hey if e replys result if nt, its nt the end ... (read in full...)
He told me he liked me but nothing came of it, now I'm friendly with his mate and he's fallen out with me!
Q. Well heres the deal... At school i liked this lad and he told me he liked me too. Nothing ever really happened! We flirted etc but nothing came of it. Now his best mate has been flirting with me and i like his mate too. But when he seen me and h...
A. 11 February 2007: well this guy obviously rele lykes yoo nd is findin it hard seeing yoo with ova people so try not to make him sooo jealous as it will drive him away,talk to him tell him that your nt willing to hang round wen youve gt other oppertunities but yoo du ... (read in full...)
Should I stop texting my best friend's brother because of the family?
Q. I have fallen for my best friends brother. We shared kiss on holiday and recently had been texting each other and its clear we both wanted something more however due to other people being around we never had the chance to be alone. Recent...
A. 11 February 2007: Wow you must really like him 10 years! If this is true love little things like family and your mate getting in the way shouldn’t bother you, its not his family you’re dating remember its him! So keep him don’t let something good go over something ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed by this guy, what am I gonna do???
Q. I'm so unlucky with guys.its really getting me down..iv liked this guy for ages, we fell out a few weeks ago, and then he rang me at 5 in the morning the other day to make friends..i thought i had another chance. I emailed one of his mates to try ...
A. 11 February 2007: Wow you seem to really like him! But does he like you? You are coming on too strong. Boys hate this and find themselves insecure. He needs space so give it him! It seems to me your living, breathing and eating everything about him! And sorry but ... (read in full...)
We agreed to a break but would stay mates! So why is he so cold whenever he sees me?
Q. my ex and i broke up because we both realise we rushed it, he was confused when telling me that he aint ready, but says he still have feeling for me n that im his ideal, i asked him not to avoid me and he says he won't and that we'll stay mates.. he ...
A. 11 February 2007: well maybe hes finding it difficult to, he ma be still sore from getting over you you do need to talk to him explain you still want him as a m8 even though u no stuff in the past maybe come a problem but youl have to cross that bridge wen u come to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I have struggled to be together for over a year, now he tells me he doesn't want commitment, what's going on?
Q. me and my boyfriend have struggled to be together for years in the past year in a half we finally got what i thought we both wanted. Now he all of a sudden in one day dont want a committment but he still got his clothes at my house what is going ...
A. 11 February 2007: well this iz tricky but i think hes telling you something hes decided its no longer what he wants you should talk to him he may be scared of commitment? there could be lots of possible answers but you need to ask him sit down and explain how you ... (read in full...)
I can't forgive my best friend for dating my ex boyfriend
Q. im in love with my x but hes datin my best m8 it happened so quickly im still forgivin her but him he just wont go away. He keeps tellin me he likes me too. im findin it so hard and i know im being harsh to my best m8 but i still cant 4give her ...
A. 10 February 2007: thanz 4 all advice its handy keep it all comin in plz xx ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex-best friend?
Q. What should I do about my ex-bestfriend? I had a best friend for the last 12 years, we met at high school and have remained best friends since. She was even one of my three bridesmaids. She recently tried to ruin my wedding in various ways. Sh...
A. 10 February 2007: this could get serious your ex friend obviously has a few problems she needs sorting its wrong and yh u should do somethin before its to late she could do something worse but my advice is tell someone. you shouldnt do this alone you dont know what ... (read in full...)
I sent him on his way and now he has another girlfriend and I regret doing it!
Q. So there is this guy that i was hooking up with and hes had a gf on and off but i finally ended it with him telling him if he was still going out with her then im done hooking up and now i kinda regret it because he is wtih his girlfriend but he ...
A. 10 February 2007: i Know how u feel and i agree its hard but given time it will pass, u may feel this way now but as usual feelings as well as people change hope this helps... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend, should I tell him?
Q. i am stii in love with my ex boyfriend but i know he only thinks of me as a friend should i tell him or just remain mates...
A. 10 February 2007: just stay m8s dont wreck what youve got its not worth it sayin that it could go both ways but ask ureself why you spilt in the first place is the guy the one!!?? i doubt it move on ... (read in full...)
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