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My girlfriend often stops me during sex because she feels like she needs to pee...is she actually close to orgasm?

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Question - (29 August 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2009)
A male United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

I've been reading alot about girls orgasms. My girlfriend quite often stops me during sex cause she feels like she needs to pee... What are the chances of this being conected to her having an orgasm?

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (30 August 2009):

satindesire agony auntYes, SY! I had her on the 25th!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

Satin, BABY???!!??? I'm getting tired of waiting.

~Sy.

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (29 August 2009):

satindesire agony auntAre you stimulating her clitoris rather than expecting her to reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone? There are two types of orgasm that women typically can have, vaginal and clitoral. Clitoral orgasms are the most common and easiest for most women to have, vaginal orgasms are reached by stimulating the g-spot (Grafenburg's Organ-google it) which is located in the upper wall of the vagina, a few inches in.

What you should be concentrating on doing is stimulating her clitoris, which is on the outside of the vulva and is analogous to the penis in terms of sexual sensitivity when it comes to providing pleasure for orgasm for women.

If she masturbates and has ever had an orgasm before (talk to her about this and see if she has), get her to show you what kind of stimulating she likes on her clitoris. I will also provide you with links for education on the clitoris and various other sexual tidbits.

Please remember to use at least two reliable methods of birth control such as hormones (the pill, patch, ring, or shot) and condoms, to prevent the passage of STIs and unwanted pregnancy. Keep yourself safe, having children is a big responsibility!

http://men.webmd.com/features/6-sex-mistakes-men-make

http://www.femaleclitoralstimulationtechniques.com/

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sexual-health-your-guide-to-sexual-response-cycle

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_200/204_love_tip.html

http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexorgasm/0,,traceycox_c4qgbvt5,00.html

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

get her to have sex with you in the shower. then when she says she needs to pee tell her to go right ahead. keep going and don't stop and give her her first orgasm.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom + , writes (29 August 2009):

hlskitten agony auntQuite high.

Its not unusual for women to think they have wet themselves when they orgasm too. See if she will let you carry on and ignore that sensation and see what happens. Whats the worst? She will wet the bed (or wherever you are)

Could be worth finding out!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

during sexual intercourse your body shuts the main passage way to your bladder when you are aroused for that exact reason ,so that you may orgasm/ejaculate instead of urinating (it's the same thing for guy's too)

the reason that it feels like she's going to pee ,is because the passage that carries the urine is the same passage that carries cum, and the feeling of urinating is quite similar to the feeling of ejaculating (yes girls can ejaculate)

another way of making sure she gets rid of her worries is waiting for her to go toilet before you get her aroused ,in that way u defiantly know it's not nature calling

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