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anonymous
writes:I have a problem that really shouldn't be a problem for a guy of my age. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months we had intercourse about 1 month ago. Up until that point our relationship had been great we were very affectionate and had had oral sex but never gone the full way. The first time we did it was amazing but now ever since our relationship hasn't been the same. She no longer wants to hang out or have date night she just wants to climb into bed. She always tells me im the best she has ever had which should make me feel better but it just don'tquestion 1: Is my relationship worth fighting for or is it ruinedquestion 2 is me being so amazing at pleasing woman going to ruin all future relationships
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (20 July 2013):
 I agree with WiseOwle
Start taking her out on DATES. Hold off on the sex for a bit.
And no, only a moronic woman would NOT want to date a guy who puts in great effort sexually.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (19 July 2013):
 I've read your submittal 6 times (pausing, between readings, to be sure that my glasses weren't fogged-over).. and still cannot find a "problem" in what you've written.....
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 July 2013):
Question 2 is hilarious...
Not all women are only interested in sex. Being good in bed (as SVC implied being good for one doesn't mean good for all) will usually mean you just have better sex, not that it'll dominate your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2013): Be a man and take charge.
Invite her out for dinner and entertainment. Spend time away from the bedroom. Stop spoiling her in only one way. Show her you have other talents, and your penis is only an "extension" of who you are.
You're not her personal man-toy. Just to fill-in between other men. Some women will play you that way, if you let them.
If all she wants is your penis, then man-up and inform her that you were expecting more; and that you'll be moving on, and taking "Mr. Johnson" where both of you will be equally appreciated.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 July 2013):
 stop having sex with her until she give you what you want.
sounds to me like she's happy now with FWB...
and no you being amazing at pleasing THIS woman does not mean you will ruin all future relationships.
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