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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi Im 32 years and I met a 21 beautiful girl. We had our first date and we kiss each other. She said to me that she just want FUN ... After while she said that she is in love of me, because she didnt know about my personality before. I was very happy with that. We start to be a couple but hiding our relation to her family. Just some of her friends and my close friends and even my family knew it. But after almost 5 months together she come to me and said we cant have a future together because the difference of our ages. She said that her parents they will never gonna accept our relation. She told to her brother and her brother said for her to break up with me if not he will... Im very sad ... she said that is better now and she is in her last year College and don't have time for relations. Im very confused ! I thought she was the Girl, my half girl that Im looking for long and it hurts so much ! My question is .... Should I fight for our relationship even when shes saying to me to stop sending text to her saying I MISS YOU / LOVE YOU because she want her head clear up for her exams. Or Should i just stop talking with her ... Im not eating properly for the last 18hours . very hard . thanks to all of you
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 I'm so sorry she is hiding behind the age as a reason for not dating.
I'm 13 years OLDER than my boyfriend and we are getting married next year...
The age is not the problem here I fear she is just not wanting to be as serious as you want to be so she is using the age as an excuse to end the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): My husband is 14 years older than me. We got married 9 years ago and we don’t have any problem with the age difference. It shouldn’t be a problem but don’t push her I didn’t get marry my husband when I was 19 but he was persistent and waited for me. we got married when I was 26 and done with the univesity. But I don’t suggest you take the risk and wait that long because if she meets someone in this between you will be heart broken, just let the relationship find its own way.
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Just follow your heart; the age difference is trivial and of no concern to anyone else.
At 21, she is an adult and in charge of her own mind.
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