My friend's boyfriend is coming onto me, how can I make him stop?

A female age 30-35, *lathan writes:

I have a problem. My best friend has been with her boyfriend for 10 months. We both have known him for the same time. He doesn't act like he likes her. You can say he is "lovey-dovey" with her. But he is with me. He hugs me. A few times he has feeded me(literally). Oncce, even in front of her, but I don't think she has noticed. He hasn't tried to kiss me or something like that, but he pays attention to me and not to her. I feel bad about it. I haven't spent any time alone with him(like going somewhere just the two of us). I never flirt with him. And I have a boyfriend whom I really like. I can say I even love him. I don't know what to do. Sometimes his actions get to me. There are moments when I think "Oh, he is so cute", but after that I feel guilty. I don't want to lose her. So what can I do so this stops?

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