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writes:A friend of mine has gone back to her cheating husband,They've been together since she was 19 (now 27)..married 2 and a half years ago....but after 18 months of marriage discovered him signed up to a dating site arranging to meet up with a girl....so she kicked him out.After 9 months she decided to take him back....which I think was a mistake.....I should point out that he's cheated on her many times during their relationship (which she knows about)..as well as gambling and running up huge debts, and losing his job in an office, but not telling her about it, and changing his clothes before going off to work on a building site!Although he's got himself into large debts many times, his family have huge amounts of money, so have always got him out of it.Now, I don't think it was advisable to take him back at all, but to add to that, she's immediatly become pregnant.I'm worried about her, what do you think the chances are that it'll work out and he'll not do the same things to her in the future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): Ultimately, only she can decide what to do, unless you aggressively make her to do something specific. Whether that husband will continue to cheat or have other negative impacts on their relationship is out of your control. You can only be there for her if and when it happens.
Many people on this planet are unfortunately, driven by the void inside their hearts and souls. To fill it in, they will grab at almost anything, even if its a little affection, a little warmth from someone with a shady background.
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