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male
age
36-40,
*ow84
writes:On Xmas day my Girlfriend of 2 years left me. We where living with her parents while we saved for our own place. The reasons she gave me was because it had become difficult with her family. The relationship was a good one many happy times together we laughed so much. We planned our future together.Since Xmas day lots of things have gone on. She changed her number as i txt her a lot. She went to New York without me over valentines and when she got back she has now stopped talking to me. But during this period apart we have met up once she cried when we met up saying that it was strange. We then kissed hugged it had so much passion. She has admitted that she has missed me and asked if i was seeing anyone over valentines. She even said that she was said that i was not going to New York with her. When she got back from New York she said that through out all this i never gave her a grand gesture to show her that i was willing to fight for her so she had lost respect. I sent flowers etc but i said to her the grandest gesture would be to treat her like the special person she is once again. I really love this girl never enjoyed life as much as i have when we where together. Right now and i guess in the past i have been a pest ie calls, emailsWhat can i possible do to win her back????
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reader, nadeen  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 it seems to me she is playing too many games. I hate to say it but she probably doesnt love you but rather the chase and if that is the case she doesn't deserve you. i would try ignoring her, be patient and see maybe she might come back. however if she doesnt dont be too hurt by it "i know easier said then done right" but seriously why do you need to be with a girl who has unrealistic expectations.
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