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I usually only answer questions that I have experience with. I hate seeing people upset over things and I think it is nice to have a way of sharing your problems like this.

I am single at the moment and loving it. Ive been hurt before by guys and dont want to go there again.

I got great answers to problems I was having and it helped so I hope I can give something back :-)

We just broke up. If you don't talk for a few months will he forget you?

Q.   My boyfriend just recently broke up with me. Is it better to not talk for a few months, until I am over him? Do feelings just disappear or if its a real connection will they still be there? Or is it better to occasionally talk so he doesn't ...

A.   30 December 2007: Hey i've been there and I didnt talk to my ex boyfriend for over a year after. It took that much for me to be able to talk to him without feeling angry at him for breaking up with him. If you do talk to him too soon you may end up getting angry with ... (read in full...)

My friend just doesn't put in the efforts to our friendship..advice?

Q.   Hi My friend is being really annoying. Whenever i ask her if she wants to meet up, she is 'busy'. But her definition of busy is sitting at home or going to her dad's house. She's great when i do see her, and a good mate, but i wish she would ju...

A.   30 December 2007: hey hun, i know how you feel ive been there. If i was you i'd just stop asking her to meet up 4 a while. Don't fall out with her it's just a subtle way of letting her know that you're not gonna make all the arrangements. Then she should come round ... (read in full...)

I did all the embarrassing/annoying ex things and now I'm a mess. How do you move on from someone that doesn't love you anymore?

Q.   The first person that I've ever had real feelings for finished with me just over a month ago and I'm still having a hard time trying to stop thinking about him. We were only together for 5 months and I can understand why it didn't work out. We hit a ...

A.   28 December 2007: hey hun. Just to let you know I have been there with an ex. I wasn't friends with him for about a year as i wasn't ready. In the same way as your story he broke up with me, except twice. I guess I just realised that he had no feelings for me anymore ... (read in full...)

He flirted with me throughout the night and then told me he has a girlfriend since 2,5 years!! How can I get him off my mind??

Q.   ok i went to this party and immediately saw him! we locked eyes it was magical. he talke to me throughout the night he kept hugging me and i felt so good! this boy had me blushing. And then he told me about his girlfriend...of two and ...

A.   28 December 2007: heya. i think you really should try your best and forget him. This might help. Put yourself in his girlfriends shoes. How would you feel if somebody told you he was flirting with other girls at parties?? Not too good I hope. Then realise that you ... (read in full...)

My guy never tells me he loves me and misses me and I feel like he doesn't like me anymore.

Q.   hey! Basically i like this guy and weve been out twice. I see him everyday and hes reallt nice etc. The only thing is that: my friend likes this guy but they're not as close as me and my guy are but they still tell each other how much they like eac...

A.   1 December 2007: as it seems from your question you have only been out with this guy twice, give it a while, it may take weeks or even months for him to open up to you about how he feels, just because your friends guy tells her how he feels it doesnt mean that you ... (read in full...)

My guy never tells me he loves me and misses me and I feel like he doesn't like me anymore.

Q.   hey! Basically i like this guy and weve been out twice. I see him everyday and hes reallt nice etc. The only thing is that: my friend likes this guy but they're not as close as me and my guy are but they still tell each other how much they like eac...

A.   1 December 2007: as it seems from your question you have only seen this guy twice, give it a while, it may take weeks or even months for him to open up to you about how he feels, just because your friends guy tells her how he feels it doesnt mean that you dont have ... (read in full...)

I want to break up with my girlfriend as I'm not happy with her but I don't want to break her heart

Q.   Hi. I am currently in an unhappy 2 and a half year relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and i am so terrified at breaking her heart. I know what to do but i just need some support and advice on ...

A.   24 November 2007: I know from experience that it isnt very nice to break up with somebody insensitively as in over the phone or whatever. The best you can do is be honest and tell her the story. Expect her to have a tantrum or two but i would definetly say do it as ... (read in full...)

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