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writes:Dear cupid..When i was 16 my best friend was involved with a lad in my class she was a year older than me and was with this boy for a year he was her 1st boyfriend.Its been 2 years and shes moved on she has a baby and a boyfriend now, we're very close and i always see her. would you think it was rong if me and her ex got involved we have been txting but i dont know wether to take it further or will my friend think i was out to get her man all along?i have nobody else to turn to because its normaly her i turn to when i need advice i dont want to fall out with her so i dont know how to approch this situation!please help
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (20 November 2007):
You are in a very similar position as my current galfrnd.i used to date her best friend whose married now and has a baby.There's nothing wrong but you need to tell your friend when you guys become an item because it'll seem like betrayal if she's the lats to know.But believe me you don't need her permission to date him.Informing her is all you need to do.If you believe things between you two can work and he's worth it go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Hello there my advice to you is do you really want the realtion to continue even if it meant losing your friend if it does you knows the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): Personally, i wouldnt go there. You have a good friend here and just how is she going to feel when you go out with her first love? I dont think i would like my friend doing that. You will never be able to go out on foursome for a night out, cos he will be there as a reminder. Sorry, but what if's appears here. What if he hasnt stop loving her and seeing her rekindles something? No, i would stay well away, sorry, if that isnt what you want to hear.
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Ask your friend. 2 years is a long time so she'll understand that you didn't have these feelings back then.
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