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41-50,
anonymous
writes:am i being pedantic?i saw someone whom i had not seen in a while and we ended up going to a club together. No. nothing happened, infact, we just had a laugh and stuff, which was really nice. i email this person to say ' oh. thanks for the randon night, was good seeing you'i'm thinkin. being courteous, saying thanks for the evening was a polite thing to do.now. this person, has not got back to me to say . oh yeah. the night was good etc. I am a little dishartened that the person hasn't returned an email, i feel it to be a little rude.am i being pedantic? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): i think the key is ....
i think the evening meant more to you than the other.
yes. it probably did too me, mean more that is. its just a case of bruised ego!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): No, I don't think you're being pedantic however, did you write the email just to get a response back? If the "Thank You" was sincere than just communicating it should be enough. If you just said it in order to hear it than perhaps you should be asking a different question.
You said you saw this person and ended up going...
Did you make plans? Did you randomly bump into the person while shopping for shoes?
That would also affect the need for a response. Perhaps the evening meant more to you than it did to the other...?
Just a thought.
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