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writes:ok im 13 there's this guy that likes me and i like him too but there's only one problem. My friend likes him too and i met him through her. He said to me that he would go out wit me but he has a gf and when he breaks up with her he says he will go out with me. I don't want to hurt my friend feelings but i want to be with him. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Until he actually goes out with you,then tell her that.He could have told her the same thing.You know how boys act like asses sometimes.But wait until he goes out with you to tell her that.He could secretly like your friend too....
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reader, cutiemax09 +, writes (17 July 2008):
cutiemax09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u so much i really appreciate this all of u!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Wait.
WHEN he has dumped his girlfriend and asked you out, THEN you say to your friend, "So-and-so asked me out today. I really like him, so I said yes. But I know that you like him too, which is why I wanted to tell you first out of everyone. You're my friend, and the last thing I want to do is hurt you. I felt that this was the right decision for me to make, to follow my heart, and I hope that you will wish me luck for whatever this relationship brings me. I, in turn, will do what I can to make this easier for you - if you don't want to talk to me, I'll understand."
Remember, though, friends last longer than boyfriends - who is more important, a boy who still has a girlfriend, or your best buddy?
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reader, jessica_04  +, writes (17 July 2008):
well, you should really talk to your friend and tell er how you and this guy feel about eachudah! dont let her find out from sumbody else and who knows wat kan happen, just dont pick this guy over yur friend! hope she understands.... good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): well... something similar happend to mee. i went 2 meet my best freind boy freind and wen he saw me he couldnt stop looking at me and he had my msn and he told me he was gonna dump my best freind for me but i acted lik i had no idea. the best thing 2 do is talk 2 ur freind about wats going on lik i did and explain that you lik him and he liks yew and u both cant help it. And good freind will understand lik mine... trust....
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