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Is there ever a point where breasts are too big?

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Question - (14 November 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2009)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My breasts are 34F's but I'm still young and they are still growing. I also have big nipples. Will boys be put off by this? Is there ever a point where they are too big?

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A male reader, BadDog United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2009):

Definitely not - the bigger the better! Big boobs and big nipples are incredibly attractively and nobody would be put off by them!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008):

Hi I'm the girl who wrote the question. Some people asked about my frame I'm a UK size ten waist wise so I have got a small waist compared to my breasts. They do gie me back ache so if it does continue then I will take your advise and see a doctor later.

Thank you to all that have answered x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

It really depends on how the rest of you is built. A little more description would be helpful.

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntMost guys that i've talked to love big nipples and big boobs guys are happy with a handful dont worri about them, but it's what your comfy with if your boobs put strain on your back maybe you should seek some medical advice and if you don't wanna go down the surgical route then maybe get better bra support gooodluck x

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A female reader, namonaihito United States +, writes (14 November 2008):

Yes, there is. Nature is not only dumb, it has a habit of trying lots of different things at once to see what will survive. Talk to your doctor about problems that may occur with your spine, and especially if you start to suffer back bain that is not affiliated with your premenstrual cramps. A lot of it will depend on what your build is, too. Remember Soliel Moon Frye (she played Punky Brewster) had to have a reduction from 36DD to 34C when she was 16, because on her frame the weight was starting to deform her spine. She suffered a lot of pain and discomfort until she had the surgery.

As for men, some won't care one way or the other, but most will be put off if your breasts are freakishly huge on your frame. That's a subjective call though, so it's hard to give a straight answer on that. Best bet would be to ask your male friends that you Aren't sleeping with: they'll be more likely to give you an honest answer than someone just trying to get into your knickers.

Lastly, you have to consider your own opinion. Do you think they're too big? Are you uncomfortable with them even if they don't hurt, or only hurt a little? Only you can answer those questions, and there are a number of solutions you can use. Jumping straight to a reduction is a little extreme except when they are causing you lots of pain or damaging your bone structure. You can try size-reducing or sports bras, for example, or even binding them (not recommended, it's bad for them). Be sure to explore the possible options before taking action.

--namonaihito

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A male reader, Austinalive United States +, writes (14 November 2008):

Nature is wise, most of the times. I don't see any trouble with you sizes, they might be a little bigger than other women, but no men will be put off of you for your breasts, even more if he loves you for more than your body.

The best way to judge if you have a problem is looking at your back. Do you feel pain in your back? Do you get tired of being stood up? if so wait some years to finish you development and go to a doctor then.

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