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writes:I was with a girl I thought was forever, but we no longer clicked I guess. We were together for a significant amount of time, and we tried to conceive. She calls me three months after we broke up, saying shes pregnant and terminating the pregnancy.I feel awful, What the hell do I do[Moderator's note: The title is the poster's own title - it is unclear whether she has already had the abortion or she is planning on having one]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): I feel awful too about your story and wonder you only got one answer. This to me is something serious. Honestly, i dont have a good answer to this too. But I wanna ask, are you sure she is pregnant? Who did the dumping, is it you or her? If it was you who who dumped her, do you think she is coming out with this drama to have her revenge or to get your attention?Anyway, if it's indeed true. Ask yourself, what is the best way to solve this? Sadly, it's her body and if there's anyone to have the right to decide for her, it would be herself. If she had already done it, there's nothing else you can do but suffer the loss and heal yourself.If the abortion is still about to happen pending your say on this, are you ready to accept your responsibility as the father? Meaning, will you support her for this? Examine your conscience and know what is right to do and what feels better for you. This is the time to be a real man and have a firm decision. This is your child we are talking about. I wish you best of luck.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 August 2009):
 If she needs support be there for her.
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