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female
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36-40,
*ylanBaby
writes:EX HELP WANTED.....Ok story is my ex and i broke up 7 months ago, he did the breaking but secretly i was releived even though it hurt. We stayed in contact and we still get on so well, flirting and and he buys me things and makes me cds and things like that. I recently started a new job in retail (used to work in an office) so now he turns up at work atleast once a week, and i have noticed that when he comes in he always has to touch me in some way. PPl i work with have commented and asked why he keeps coming in. I like seeing him but not this often and i kind of gave in once and slept with him. I have told him to please not come in so often and not to keep such close contact but it hasnt worked. And he told me that he is enjoying being single again.Help me he is driving me mental. what could he want?
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (26 August 2007):
Sounds like he doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship and wants to be friends with benefits...although the gifts thing is puzzling in this case.
Perhaps your boss could send him a message next time he comes in at least with the work thing, as this must look very unprofessional to your boss and if he or she isn't aware of your side, he/she might look down on you for this too.
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reader, RebeccaT  +, writes (26 August 2007):
Hes goin mental! Just gentely push him away when he tries to touch you and if he keeps doing it it might seem a bit hersh but shout at him to let him know your being serious.
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