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writes:Am I asking for trouble meeting up with my ex?We were together a year, lived together etc. Out of the blue, he broke up with me (though looking back things were strained)...But a week before that he told me he was thinking of proposing.So 3 months on, we're back in contact. I miss him - we were so good together, we had a great bond. We just lacked sexual passion, which was our downfall.He wants to go for a drink, he'll text me with 2 or 3 x's at the end of a text, saying he really wants to meet up with me...I feel a little comfused about it all!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 If he learned his lessons , fine but if not ,you will go back on the merry - go - round again.
If you think he should be given another chance, then open the door for him again.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 If this is the case, what has changed now with him? Don't let his insecurity cause you to feel insecure about this relationship. Hear him out but remember that he hurt you and you should give it some thought before you go back with him.
Do you think that passion may come back after a break up? That is possible. I guess you need to follow your heart. Let us know how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe broke up because we had a lack of passion, but the underlying issue was his insecurity.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (9 March 2008):
Ask yourself this, do you want him back? Will you be upset if he just wants to have a drink, have sex maybe and then tell you he made a mistake? I'm not sure what he has in mind but if I were you, I would meet up with him, have that nice friendly drink to see what he wants. If he wants to get back together, I would tell him I need to think about this. Don't jump right back into his arms. And then, really think about this. He broke up with you for a reason. Is the reason still there? Was he with someone else who cut him loose and now he's lonely? Keep your eyes peeled.
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